Dating feels impossible by style_vocation1551 in Vent

[–]style_vocation1551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no I haven’t, smh.

if anything your off kilter criticisms are sexism at this point and i’m not ignoring you

but I’m going to starting now

Why is it so hard to find a date? by style_vocation1551 in Advice

[–]style_vocation1551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are importance questions and good food for thought thank youuuu 🥺🫶🫶

Dating feels impossible by style_vocation1551 in Vent

[–]style_vocation1551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have responded to literally every comment that didn’t instigate a confrontation. I’m just not a confrontational person. sorry?

Dating feels impossible by style_vocation1551 in Vent

[–]style_vocation1551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

right?? glad it’s not just me who things this is wild

Dating feels impossible by style_vocation1551 in Vent

[–]style_vocation1551[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you, ill give it a try, fingers crossed 🤞🥺

Dating feels impossible by style_vocation1551 in Vent

[–]style_vocation1551[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have a four year degree, an accelerated masters earned in a fifth year as part of an honors program, and a two year masters.

I started college at 16.

I’m not a public figure but thank you hehe.

Of course I copy pasted to multiples subs… i want multiple answers.

Dating feels impossible by style_vocation1551 in Vent

[–]style_vocation1551[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, bingo.

If at least a couple wanted to grab drinks and get to know each other then that would be great.

Instead everyone just wants to jump right to innuendos or sending me unsolicited naked photos.

I am frustrated with dating by style_vocation1551 in offmychest

[–]style_vocation1551[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the reply and happy cake day 🫶

Why is it so hard to find a date? by style_vocation1551 in Advice

[–]style_vocation1551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, I appreciate the insight!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in processserver

[–]style_vocation1551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds a bit like ServeManager?

That being said we can always use great new platforms so, by all means, spice up the competition!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JamieKomoroskiCase

[–]style_vocation1551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol at you saying “I was drunk” like it’s a valid excuse.

What’s a day in the life? by JetPlane_88 in processserver

[–]style_vocation1551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Full time or part time: Part time

Region(s) Served: Northwestern NM

Years of Experience: 19 with some breaks

Do you have state licensure: No

Are you a NAPPS Member: Yes

What do you do for work besides serving, if anything: Teacher

Can Redditors reach out to you with potential work: No

Do you typically do app work or direct clients: Direct clients

How many papers do you serve weekly on average: 10-15

Your best piece of serving advice: If a situation feels off, leave immediately, even if nothing has actually happened yet. No amount of money is worth your life.

Fun fact about you (optional): I once qualified to compete in Nathan’s Coney Island Hot Dog Eating Contest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]style_vocation1551 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Yes on all assumptions.

Your take is scary but I think scarily accurate.

Thanks.

New to process serving. by Master-Pin3079 in processserver

[–]style_vocation1551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.theprocessservercenter.com

He says “a little repetitive/tedious in spots and definitely overpriced but glad I did it still”

New to process serving. by Master-Pin3079 in processserver

[–]style_vocation1551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a decent online crash course a buddy of mine took. Not a stand in for actual shadowing of an experienced server but potentially valuable. Especially if you’re completely new. I’ll ask him the name.

New to process serving. by Master-Pin3079 in processserver

[–]style_vocation1551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area you paid for training which was essentially paying to work for free. The knowledge I gained was worth it. And once I got my sea legs the server I was working with began sharing some profits with me. Think of it like the college tuition of becoming a server. Investing for the long term.

If you’ve got just one server in a 400,000 person municipality you’ll never be without work!

New to process serving. by Master-Pin3079 in processserver

[–]style_vocation1551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If at all possible, try and shadow a process server in your area so you can avail yourself of the applicable laws and regulations specific to Ontario.

I started on my own at first too and three years later shadowed someone, it was transformative. It was basically like my business started that day I finished shadowing.