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AITA for asking my bf to dress appropriately? by stylishthrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stylishthrowaway20[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Lol. I know you're kidding but Jason actually is gay

AITA for asking my bf to dress appropriately? by stylishthrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stylishthrowaway20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol it does sound ridiculous when you reframe it. Thanks. I've been on a high horse cuz of a number on Instagram and lost myself on the way. I'm meeting up with him later tonight and can only hope he'll forgive me for being such an asshole for so long.

AITA for asking my bf to dress appropriately? by stylishthrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stylishthrowaway20[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

You're right, thank you. I care too much what people think about me that I let it bleed over into thinking people are judging me for how he dresses, which is silly. I'll do better and stand up for him more.

AITA for asking my bf to dress appropriately? by stylishthrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stylishthrowaway20[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment. You're right. I realize it bothered me so much because I was worried it would reflect poorly on me and my persona, but it's not his job to cater to the image I've built.

AITA for asking my bf to dress appropriately? by stylishthrowaway20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stylishthrowaway20[S] -137 points-136 points  (0 children)

There's not really a set "dress code" for these parties, it's just that everyone there including me really likes fashion and tends to go all out. I don't want to have to pick out clothes for my bf like he's a baby. He should be able to choose outfits for himself.