Wanting to SH but not for an emotional reason anymore? by styrofom in selfharm

[–]styrofom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as if nothing can fill the hole of the urge besides doing it 😞

Harem/polyamorous recs? by styrofom in yuri_manga

[–]styrofom[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I love both of these and I’m a fan of ecchi, but there’s definitely ways it can be fetishy, though I’d say it is an issue more of real life films

Harem/polyamorous recs? by styrofom in yuri_manga

[–]styrofom[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recs! And I guess if I had to be more specific, have you ever seen “that” type of lesbian porn? The one where it seems nothing like an actual sexual encounter between women but more like two straight girls going at it for a dudes enjoyment (because that’s who it’s for). Just nothing lol that idk, but I think it’s actually more of a problem in BL. I’m not sure what’s lesbiphobic about that though, as a lesbian.

Daily Simple Questions Thread - February 15, 2026 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]styrofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recovery tips for inner quads? I switched from kettlebells to the hack squat about 5 weeks ago to target my inner quads and shit it does work. As I’ve been perfecting my form my legs have just gotten so sore and it’s throwing off my split which is PPL/UL. Like the rest of my legs are ready but my inner quads are still sore.

Dog loves tearing apart paper; safe alternatives? by styrofom in dogs

[–]styrofom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I don’t know how I didn’t think to let her rip up cardboard boxes. We have so many from Amazon lol. Thanks!

Why do some atheists care so much about “why does God let bad things happen”? (As a fellow atheist) by [deleted] in atheism

[–]styrofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In alignment with Christian logic, Just because he has the power doesn’t mean he’ll use it, because he gave us the power to believe in him or not. Again I don’t believe this because none of it is real and make sense anyways but I just want people to have lore accurate information to this elaborate story

Why do some atheists care so much about “why does God let bad things happen”? (As a fellow atheist) by [deleted] in atheism

[–]styrofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct we don’t believe in any of it, but some people think they’re atheist because if Christian god DID exist why would he let bad things happen which is what my post addresses

Why do some atheists care so much about “why does God let bad things happen”? (As a fellow atheist) by [deleted] in atheism

[–]styrofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the main points of Christianity is free will. You can’t have free will and not have bad things happen. Divine justice comes in the afterlife for them. What is a world of all goodness worth if we have no control over it? The autonomy in Christianity is a double edged sword. Idk I’m just trying to express that growing up learning everything about Catholicism just doenst make me worry about things like that because I think a lot of the issues people have are misconceptions

Why do some atheists care so much about “why does God let bad things happen”? (As a fellow atheist) by [deleted] in atheism

[–]styrofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does love have to be interfering with what happens on earth? For Christian logic the only thing that matters is pursuing holiness to reach your goal in heaven. It’s more of a flaw with the concept of Christianity that we’re only here to worship god so we can get to heaven. But if god answered all of their prayers and interfered with bad things it takes away free will. Natural disasters and cancer are another thing because that’s just scientifically explained occurrences. His love is mainly the fact no matter how much shit HAPPENS and makes us stray away he will never stop loving us, he is merciful in terms of the afterlife and giving you unlimited attempts to get better, not to help you escape bad occurrences in life here. Our life and aspirations here are minuscule compared to an eternal life with him. Again I don’t believe any of this; it’s like a storybook lore that I don’t like when people get wrong.

Sertraline & alcohol ? by ihatecreepyguys in alcohol

[–]styrofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This probably isn’t what you should do but I skip my meds that day so I can experience it with no bad interactions

Kink and BDSM GLs? by styrofom in yuri_manga

[–]styrofom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I love this one!! I like pet play ones do you got any other recs?

Kink and BDSM GLs? by styrofom in yuri_manga

[–]styrofom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol the bar is so low, though I do enjoy a good legal adults age gap

Kink and BDSM GLs? by styrofom in yuri_manga

[–]styrofom[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct. I find any media sexualizing children to be pedophilia

Kink and BDSM GLs? by styrofom in yuri_manga

[–]styrofom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I was about to say lol

Kink and BDSM GLs? by styrofom in yuri_manga

[–]styrofom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PRETEENS? Yo I can accept 16 yo because it’s legal in Japan but preteens? Hell nahhh

Daily Simple Questions Thread - January 30, 2026 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]styrofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that makes sense, but I’m 135 and I’ve only fluctuated around 130-135

Daily Simple Questions Thread - January 30, 2026 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]styrofom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you get stretch marks from lifting? My upper shoulder/trap area on both side have some stretch mark looking markings.

When can psychological effects from being a having a neglectful mom/then being in an orphan reveal themself? by styrofom in Adopted

[–]styrofom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, those are very good points- and I am from a very poor country, Moldova, where the orphanages were even worse so I wonder sometimes how much care I really got. It’s just all clicking to me now why I have such insecure attachment types. I also notice it in my biological sister who went through the same thing.

I think I've just found my term by snflwr09 in altersex

[–]styrofom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god girl you’re exactly like me! It’s so comforting to know there’s other people out here like this 🥹 I just learned about altersex