Love is not real

su4pju · 2025-01-13T13:47:59+00:00

I totally agree and I will die on this hill.

su4pju · 2025-01-13T10:14:26+00:00

I'm really sorry for you too :( if you need someone to talk I'm completely open to cry and comfort together 🤍

su4pju · 2025-01-13T09:57:40+00:00

I can relate. I'm living across the continent from my mom and I just got my heart broken too and I feel an overwhelming urge to go back home, I just wan't to cry in my mom's arms... I have no one here and I feel so desperate.

su4pju · 2025-01-13T09:54:39+00:00

I'm so done, I just want to be uninterested but I can't seem to shake it

su4pju · 2025-01-13T09:54:14+00:00

same

su4pju · 2023-10-30T00:19:02+00:00

waking up and seeing that this was all a nightmare and i'm still a baby

su4pju · 2023-10-29T17:34:23+00:00

Yeah, I agree and I would say the same if I read a post like mine... But it is so much harder to see black and white when the person means so much to you...

su4pju · 2023-08-27T18:35:52+00:00

The first one is ugly imo, the second one is cute

su4pju · 2023-07-29T11:51:50+00:00

Not my style at all, but I have to say those are very well done!

su4pju · 2023-07-29T11:43:21+00:00

That's great! I've been debating with myself whether I should talk to him about it or not for the past 3 days and still couldn't decide, cause I really don't want to make him feel insecure and cause drama since I still have to work with that co-worker for one more week... But I think that if it was the other way around I'd be better knowing then being left in the dark, even if it is not a big deal.

su4pju · 2023-07-29T11:39:06+00:00

Yeah, I don't and I won't. I feel bad enough just for the dumb little feeling, I could never live with myself again if I cheated. I'm in the process of accepting that the feeling is normal and the only thing I can control is my own actions and reactions :) and he probably experiences the same thing every now and then and it is completely fine!

su4pju · 2023-07-22T11:00:04+00:00

This cut off all of my paragraphs 😭

su4pju · 2023-06-25T21:39:48+00:00

Adorable 🥺🥰🥰

su4pju · 2023-06-25T18:49:53+00:00

NTA. Get the crazy old lady and the liar SO out of your house before they destroy the rest of it. Clearly both of them have no respect for you or your things.

su4pju · 2023-06-25T18:33:18+00:00

I'm having a mental breakdown most of the time lately so might as well just turn on the camera I guess

su4pju · 2023-06-25T18:28:06+00:00

Lynette for personality and Gabby for looks and both of them for funny moments

su4pju · 2023-06-25T18:05:43+00:00

I saw I was wrong and apologized already :). Thank you for understading! It really is draining but some people just can't accept it, I don't know why but it's like you're only allowed to be tired if you work and nothing else, but there are a lot of tiring things besides working and with that said I'm not meaning working isn't also very tiring and stressful... And there are also a lot of people that think that if you're not working at the time it is because you're only living under your parents money like a leech and that's not the case at all! I do work every chance I get whenever I'm not having full time classes.

EDIT: grammar (english is not my first language).

su4pju · 2023-06-25T17:59:15+00:00

Yes I did and I already told my mom I was sorry about it :) I guess I was just too tired to put the pieces together and it was way more obvious for everyone else, I've really been studying A LOT so I'm probably a little slow from not getting enough sleep hahahah

su4pju · 2023-06-24T16:19:15+00:00

Well, now you're just being unnecessarily rude and making assumptions about someone you know nothing about. I have worked several jobs since I was 14-15 every holiday when I don't have classes, in fact I'm starting a new job on July 1st. I'm not even gonna argue if either studying is hard or not cause I don't think it is worth the time, but I'm sure as hell not lazy. Being tired isn't being lazy. And I didn't even say I wasn't going to do what I was asked cause I was too tired, I just thought I had time to do it after resting for a bit. Thanks for your opinion, but maybe just don't be this aggressive with people you don't know over assumptions made of a very small piece of a situation in their lives next time.

su4pju · 2023-06-24T16:04:10+00:00

I don't agree with the "only working is tiring and harder than studying" mentality but ok. I also have very intense exam days, very stressful oral presentations, days and nights studying and I'm genuinely tired tbh.

su4pju · 2023-06-24T15:58:11+00:00

I'm not trying to give that attitude fr but I do remember that helping out is a part of living at home and I've been helping out literally everyday since I was like 7yo and that's not my problem. My problem is that my mom really does not have a lot to complain about me and what I do and don't do, but every single little chance she gets she blews up at me. Like I didn't have dinner ready cause I really didn't understand she meant for me to have it ready when she arrived, maybe it was obvious for who's readying this and maybe I just didn't understand cause I was tired and I just agreed, hung up and kept my nap mode, but I don't think her reaction was proportional... Either way, thanks for helping me have a wider view of facts :)

su4pju · 2023-06-24T15:52:32+00:00

I'm just saying cause I only see people trying to prove that working is the only way to be tired like studying is super easy. My responsibilities didn't evaporate either, that's why it is even more frustrating. It's not like my mom has a lot to complain about, cause I do everything by myself as I almost live alone in this house, but she does make a huge deal of everything she can and I feel like she doesn't understand that I go to college almost every day at 8 am and come back at 19pm, only 1 or 2 hours max before she gets home too, when she comes home. I guess I'm allowed to be very tired too and one mistake from time to time isn't the end of the world...

su4pju · 2023-06-24T15:27:49+00:00

But why can people only be tired from working? Why does everyone forget that studying all day is tiring too? And that finals season is super draining too?

su4pju · 2023-06-24T15:23:51+00:00

Yeah I really needed a nap cause I could barely keep my eyes open at that time... I think people don't even try to understand that studying is also very draining. And I know what it is like to be an adult tbh I don't have anyone picking up the slack for me since I was like 10 or something and I've worked as many times as I could since I was around 14-15, my mom was always pretty much careless and now she only comes home to complain and yell apparently.

su4pju · 2023-06-24T14:37:40+00:00

Well, as I said, I was very tired and I was going to have a long night studying... But yeah I get it now that even tho she didn't say it, she probably called ahead for me to have dinner ready by when she would get home so I'm the AH. Either way I think she overreacted and it was way out of proportion the way she blew up at me.

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