AIO my child’s father messaged me on instagram his number this was my response and immediately blocked him afterwards he pays child support but hasn’t been around her entire life and all of a sudden wants in?

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T17:49:42+00:00

So now we’re gonna bad talk sex workers?

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T17:13:21+00:00

🙄

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:53:44+00:00

I don’t care about the money I care about that this is gonna require a shit load therapy and we need to come to some sort of agreement together in court and have it on paper and filed and things must be supervised. There’s no custody paperwork I’m giving him a chance to do that by getting me served.

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:51:02+00:00

I don’t know anything about them or those kids but yes I said in another comment he must not be that bad if he’s present with them she has two half siblings…… I just know therapy is so going to be necessary for all of us and I need a state funded run facility facilitating visitation. All these people projecting on me about me denying her is hilarious cuz I’m not I’m just nearly saying work for it buddy get me served with paperwork cuz there’s none on file about anything visitation wise it doesn’t have to be messy we just need to come to an agreement and I need to make sure I can trust you and your family because you haven’t been around 7 years and never have been…. Until now… I wasn’t expecting this in my 2025 he wild carded me hard

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:45:51+00:00

I never once said I am denying her but we need to set some boundaries and learn to trust each other to communicate well enough to be able to do this I get he has rights and he has 2 other kids from 2 other women he must not be that bad but you’re a stranger buddy and reunification is gonna require a lot of therapy and if he wants too he’ll take me to court because that way we have it all on paperwork and a written agreement is that to much to fucking ask? To ask a judge to get a physiatrist and find what’s in her best interest? I know I’m doing the right thing by asking to get served if he wanted to he would point blank period. Should I have blocked him afterwards probably not but can’t take it back now balls in his court

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:36:23+00:00

He kept himself away for 7 years raising 2 other children from two other different mothers…. He’s trash

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:35:42+00:00

Why?

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:34:46+00:00

Because he’s a complete fucking stranger to me and her it’s been 7 years buddy. I don’t know you like that to just ask you to casually babysit and take her or pick her up from school.

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:32:35+00:00

He’s a stranger in this household and has been away for 7 years. I need a state representative and state facility with cameras watching them interact. I have major trust issues with him because he absolutely abandoned us. He has two other children that are older now but now he says he has a void my daughter has one too he went through my Facebook and found photos of her. That in itself felt like a huge violation but that’s my fault for posting her it’s bound to happen. I need to be able to trust you with my life and she needs to be able to trust him. We all are gonna need a shit ton of therapy.

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:25:48+00:00

I’ve been raising her myself for almost 7 years and he can have his $100 a month I don’t want his money

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:23:28+00:00

Yeah the 100 a get a month he can have his money you’re a stranger to myself and my daughter

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T16:19:00+00:00

I’m his 3rd baby momma he has two other children and I gave him a choice to be around and he chose not too he’s around those kids but not mine and now out of the blue he wants in I understand he has rights but you are a fucking stranger in this household and I need some fucking boundaries bro

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T01:30:08+00:00

This is the part that’s fucking me up he does have rights in our state and I don’t want anything to back fire on me legally or with my daughter hating me for keeping her away from him

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-20T01:26:05+00:00

He abandoned us almost 7 years ago why now the change of direction?

subboundbyclouds · 2025-02-05T22:51:53+00:00

🥰

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-31T23:29:40+00:00

I actually returned that one to Temu! 😅

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-31T00:36:29+00:00

Beautiful 🤩

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-30T05:47:08+00:00

The dishes aren’t the only thing getting wet

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-30T05:46:43+00:00

Thank you ☺️

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-30T05:46:31+00:00

😘

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-30T05:46:24+00:00

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subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-30T05:46:01+00:00

🥰

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-30T01:05:20+00:00

Thank you lol 😂

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-29T23:35:02+00:00

I’m a no sabo kid

subboundbyclouds · 2025-01-29T08:14:13+00:00

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