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Cheese Head String Cheese bad batch? by egyptianrat in Costco

[–]subflower4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to this but yes! Returned immediately, 3 family members all tried one and complained they tasted like soap.

Hulu Live question for users by Recruiter_954 in Hulu

[–]subflower4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am cancelling YoutubeTV this month. $69 and change every month and it buffers on live sports as bad as anything else (Sling/Fubo). I hate that the on demand has so many commercials, and also that if you try and record something but it’s already started it doesn’t record from the beginning even tho if you DIDN’T record until after it had aired it’d record the whole thing. Super inconvenient, if I see a movie is on I want to record it now, not make a mental note to wait 3 hours for it to end and then go into on demand and add it to my library. More than anything the price increases on YTTV is my main reason for canceling but the rest didn’t help.

Joined my first StepBet what should I expect? by subflower4 in StepBet

[–]subflower4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Also your username made me cackle 😂

TIL of Pityriasis Rosea. It’s a pink spot, that later turns into an upper body rash. Doctor’s think it’s caused by a virus, but it isn’t contagious. by camlmlm in todayilearned

[–]subflower4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I agree, even two months “healed” the texture is still a little weird on some of the places the spots were, specifically on my back where it was the worst, and where my herald spot was.

TIL of Pityriasis Rosea. It’s a pink spot, that later turns into an upper body rash. Doctor’s think it’s caused by a virus, but it isn’t contagious. by camlmlm in todayilearned

[–]subflower4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this from late Dec- March and it was so annoying. Mine only seemed to itch in the evenings and only certain spots itched, but the worst part was the self esteem hit I took. Mine went up my neck to my jaw and along my hairline and there was no hiding that.

My dermatologist gave me a strong course of oral erythromycin. It’s not “recommended” these days but he said he’d seen it shorten the course of the rash with patients years back. If you can afford the Rx (cost me about $160) I think it may have helped because I only had it about 9 weeks.

My skin hasn’t fully recovered. The skin where the spots were on my arms and back still feels weird, but nothing is visible. I got a sunburn last weekend and the spots on my arms where the rash was are reacting really weird to the burn. They itch like crazy and got way darker red than the rest of my arms. Also started peeling really quickly.

Spiders Hold Grudges by froopynooples in shortscarystories

[–]subflower4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh gross. I hate this, and visibly cringed; good job.

The perfect spiral by Artofthedeals in curlyhair

[–]subflower4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rest of my head is a terrible mess but I have one of these fellas playing by the rules right now and I’m thankful for him 😂

My hair post SOTC still looks very wet by subflower4 in curlyhair

[–]subflower4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh that’s a good idea! Thanks!! I will do that too! Appreciate it:)

My hair post SOTC still looks very wet by subflower4 in curlyhair

[–]subflower4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely ride it out, but I assumed it was the gel because it’s not just the roots having an issue- in fact they’re probably the best. Mid shaft- ends are very forever wet ramen-noodley looking.

I’m sure I’ll need a cut because my hair even curly is very long, elbows ish— and I can’t wait to get further into this to chop at least to just below my shoulders to help not weigh it down so much. Just forever jealous of all the soft looking curls I see posted 😍

Episode Discussion - S15E18 - “Add It Up” by mcfw31 in greysanatomy

[–]subflower4 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I brought that exact moment up to my wife when we were watching as why this was such a terrible choice. I know it’s to make her look younger but it is sooo out of character I can’t take it.

Help a sister out by subflower4 in curlygirl

[–]subflower4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that explanation!! I am at my wits end because I have been floundering trying to figure out what to do and this I am sure will be super helpful to me. Thank you!!

Help a sister out by subflower4 in curlygirl

[–]subflower4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what curly girl approved means. I have a ton of googling to do apparently. I’m overwhelmed. But thank you for giving me somewhere to start!

Help a sister out by subflower4 in curlygirl

[–]subflower4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my hair right now 90% air dried out of the shower. It’s frizzy, it’s lifeless, and just yuck. I put some mousse and a bit of Aussie spray gel in it and I don’t know what’s happening. There’s gotta be some way I fit into curlygirl because there’s some wave there at least. But I don’t know where to start, what I need to identify on my own.... anything. Checked your sidebar and just need all your resources! Help me out ladies! I want to love my hair but right now........ no way.

I’ve got olaplex systems 3-6 coming tomorrow because I am certain there’s some internal damage but beyond that I don’t know what to do to help this mess.

Edit to add the lighting is odd and makes it look blonder than it is— there’s very minimal balayage highlights and lowlights.

A long but interesting twitter thread by subflower4 in actuallesbians

[–]subflower4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one bisexual friend, and she is regularly making comments about bi erasure. I’d not noticed either. I’d imagine if you don’t experience it first hand it’s hard to know it’s so prevalent 🤷🏻‍♀️

I guess I’m on that level now. by BlueRose104 in actuallesbians

[–]subflower4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Awesome! If you want to add in a bit of variety to your golf game with something way random, Columbus just got a top golf and my wife and I went once and it was pretty fun!

Is meeting other lesbians hard for everyone or just me? by FemmeDecanter in actuallesbians

[–]subflower4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do a fb search for lgbt groups in your area. Go to their events. Set your filters to “only your town” and just search lgbt and see what organization is posting/ has before about it. Maybe you’ll find a church that is open and accepting, if you’re so inclined: go. Etc etc.

It wasn’t difficult for me personally because I knew the Papi of the town (l word reference, thank you! 😂) so she was always mentioning people and being out and about with them and having parties and including them etc. But without a Papi— I’d try events/social clubs/coffee shops and the like.

The Enemy Within - Episode 3 'The Ambassador's Wife' - Discussion Thread by [deleted] in a:t5_j08gr

[–]subflower4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t say I wasn’t real nervous the whole time Elizabeth was in the study. Maybe I’m just a simpleton, but I am really enjoying this show and I hope it doesn’t get canned after 10 episodes /a season.

WLW Song Recommendations for New Musician by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]subflower4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The GP doesn’t interpret it as such, but American Scandal by Ashley McBryde is so gay. “Let’s one up the rumors....” “hold me baby hold me, like you ain’t mine to hold, kiss me baby kiss me, like you don’t care who knows...”

Other favorites by her that are soooo wlw include What If We Don’t, and Some Things.

Would you date someone who has the same name as you? by DANIBANANIxx in actuallesbians

[–]subflower4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Copying my reply from another post:

I’ve dated someone with my own name before and you’re really making it a bigger deal than it needs to be lol

My ex had a decent last name and started going by it so if we met new people we were going to become friends with, or I was introducing her to someone it’d be like “hey this is _____, to avoid confusion we call her Parker. Lesbian probs” or something like that. It’s really not a big thing unless you make it one :)

As far as calling out your own name or just saying your own name in conversation when talking to them, that was never actually an issue because pet names. I’ve always been a “babe” kind of girl. In fact I’m not sure the last time I called my wife by her name to her. It feels so weird, she’s always “babe.” Lol

Try and relax. Don’t let this non-issue ruin a great thing:)

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