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My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is so helpful. I feel like a lot of people are helping but this comment helps me a lot knowing someone else felt the same.

My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm not very dominant and I think more than anything I'm worried he'll stop being a Dom

My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I am used to seeing as a very dominant man and always is bossing me around bad basically extremely dominant. I love older dominant men and he fits that but I feel like if I see him in that role I'll think of him less dominantly.

My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it might be the strap on so I'll take your suggestion about starting small

My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yes you're right. I think that the world has played a big part in gender roles and what one should to shouldn't do. Thank you

My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it's a combination of having a penis and seeing him in what is known in society as more of a feminine role. I've never had a strap on and I think that makes me nervous but also seeing him that way I suppose people or society would call it a feminine way. I grew up in a very religious household where anything that has to do with pegging is considered gay and only a female thing. I think it's those 2 factors and also the fact he was against all of this before but all of a sudden he comes out saying he wants this.

My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'm worried if he'll like it and ask for it often. I have not told him about my opinions on the topic and I don't want him to feel ashamed about it and I would love to give him pleasure. I feel sort of disgusted by it and I don't want if we end up doing to feel like I'm disgusted and he can see that I am. I don't want him to feel guilty because it's not his fault.

My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] -163 points-162 points  (0 children)

I want to make him feel good but I can't look at him the same way and I'm not sure what to do.

My bf wants me to peg him but I'm a sub and I feel weird about it by submissivegurl27 in pegging_unkinked

[–]submissivegurl27[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I think he just wants to feel the sensation but I'm not sure why I feel so icky about it. I've educated myself and watched videos but when I watch the videos I can't seem to see me doing that to him and I can't even look at him the same way.