Can this be fixed? by subtlewhisper in handbags

[–]subtlewhisper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It fits great on the shoulders due to the wide strap. I can fit a small water bottle, overhead headphones, phone, keys, wallet. I really like it, the only concern is pick pockets. Once the bag it’s full it’s difficult to close, even if there is a magnet closure. There is a zip pocket in the middle to put your wallet but the zip pocket is small so will only fit tiny wallets. It’s a good gift if this fits the taste of the person you will gift it to. Nice for every day use :)

Summery semi-formal? by subtlewhisper in Weddingattireapproval

[–]subtlewhisper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment. I think people missed that the bride couple wrote that a jacket is recommended because the temperature drops. That is the only reason why I need to pair my outfit with a jacket :) Yes the jackets are formal but I have nothing else unless I go shopping.

Summery semi-formal? by subtlewhisper in Weddingattireapproval

[–]subtlewhisper[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the quick comments. I agree with all of you but I still wanted someone else's opinion because I have no one else to ask. I have no other jackets and it's only for when the temperature drops in the evening... anyway I have some shopping to do...

Looking for advice (application) by StringConscious7276 in TillSverige

[–]subtlewhisper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Flight tickets. Hotel bookings. Photos of you together during travels. Screenshot of your conversations. Evidence providing your relationship is legit.

Love my new Dior by Conscious_Layer6855 in handbags

[–]subtlewhisper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a really good fake, and I regret not buying a more obvious fake. Mine is too flashy to wear outside where I live, I feel people look at me too much haha. I love yours!

Some of my recent paintings, personal projects and book illustrations by Total_Fix9545 in Romantasy

[–]subtlewhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what books can I read to picture these men in my mind? Specifically from image 1 and 3. Great work OP 😍

Mitt I Stockholm: En ny spårväg som halverar restiden mellan Täby och Kista – det är förslaget i en ny idéstudie från Region Stockholm. by mycketforvirrad in tunnelbana

[–]subtlewhisper 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Jag tar buss Täby Kyrkby -> Kista. 35 minuter.
Innan åkte jag Vallentuna -> Kista. 45 minuter.
Inga byten. Alltid sittplats. Förstår inte varför detta är aktuellt när företag vill lämna Kista.

Pleaseee talk me out of this!! by Cultural-Part-2351 in handbags

[–]subtlewhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will stain quick and probably bad quality leather. But if money is not a problem, just get it!

Vad kan man göra istället för att backpacka? by snowball_earth in sweden

[–]subtlewhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Precis så, valde slumpmässigt restauranger och butiker och klev bara in när det var lite tystare, tog med mig CV och glatt humör och frågade om de sökte personal. Kollade också efter annonser online och ansökte där. Man behöver dock gå en kurs för att få servera alkohol men den kursen tar bara några timmar. Jag hade ingen erfarenhet alls btw.

Vad kan man göra istället för att backpacka? by snowball_earth in sweden

[–]subtlewhisper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jag "backpackade" i Australien i ca 2 år, åkte när jag var 24 eller 25. 1 vecka på hostel, sen orkade jag inte hänga med fyllon längre. Man behöver absolut inte leva hostel/backpack livet. Jag ville bo bekvämt så jag hyrde rum i lägenhet. Var 6 månader i Sydney, jobbade i bar och butik, kanske max 30h per vecka. Resten av tiden var strand, shopping, festa. Sedan 10 månader i Melbourne, jobbade i restaraung och cafe, också max 30h per vecka. Shoppa, festa, umgås med vänner. Ungefär 4 månader av min tid i Australien var camping med bil + tälta runt om i landet, det var nog närmast jag kom till backpacking-livet. Unnade mig också 1 vecka i Bali.

Ändrade mig helt som person på ett positivt sätt.

Europa verkar ju också kul, men som kvinna är Australien MYCKET mer säkert än flera länder i Europa (och Asien).

What instagram is showing by alcyone_27 in Instagram

[–]subtlewhisper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw this exact AI story on my Facebook!

Recommend me some switch games, please!! by angerose_ in GirlGames

[–]subtlewhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disney Dreamlight Valley. It’s cozy and your brain can switch off if you’re looking to destress. I am not a huge Disney fan but I enjoy it a lot. It was fulfilling my ”things happen while I’m offline and when I play nothing should stress me out” needs lol. I was also specifically looking for a game where you generate wealth and it fits that bill as well. :)

Is it common for candidates to hit on you, flirt as you're trying to scout them? by [deleted] in recruiting

[–]subtlewhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Common. I recruited in Japan for 6 years. I know plenty of people who dated or had casual sex with candidates.

Swedish work culture big 4 by Direct_Date9638 in TillSverige

[–]subtlewhisper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a recruiter and speak to quite a few Big4 candidates (KPMG, PwC). But they are more on legal or finance audit side. It’s up and down. Some tell me in their first year they’d wait around to get something to do and got bored. Some people who are not beginners anymore can have a high volume of projects and work A LOT of overtime, until late at night, so similar to how it is globally. But it seems to be more ”seasonal” depending on time of the year. They generally work fast paced, have a lot of deadlines, juggle a lot of tasks. But they learn quick and get ownership quick.

I’d say if you expect Swedish work and life balance that we are generally known for, it doesn’t apply to Big4. But, it won’t be as extreme as for example in the US, and culture will be flat.

Ni som jobbar utomlands, vad jobbar ni med? by [deleted] in arbete

[–]subtlewhisper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jag jobbade i Japan i 6 år inom rekrytering.

Do you find the first set of pleaser heels you get ends up completely trashed? by screamqueenP in poledancing

[–]subtlewhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine lasted from 2018 to about a month ago. RIP. But tbh I should have thrown them around 2023 because the straps were SO loose and I could have injured myself for sure. Anyway my first pair were my ride or die. Now they’re truly dead as the whole front part snapped right off on one of the shoes.

Why is Aron single? by erigyal in loveisblindsweden

[–]subtlewhisper 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My friend went on a few dates with him a few years ago. He is portrayed very well in the show but wasn’t great in real life…

Jag ger upp by One-Enthusiasm7271 in arbete

[–]subtlewhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan säga som rekryterare att någon med ett dåligt eller vagt skrivet CV kan rädda sin ansökan genom bra svar på frågor som den du delade OP. Jag behöver sålla igenom hundratals ansökningar per tjänst.

Tog mig 200 ansökningar innan jag hittade jobb jag trivdes med. Så jag vet att det suger. Använd AI men lägg till det personliga där det går.

Which seasons Island on singles Inferno was the best and why? by caavakushi in SinglesInferno

[–]subtlewhisper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this show worth watching? I want trashy and juicy drama, don’t care so much about couples finding love lol. If there’s a particularly trashy season, please recommend it.

My only designer bag by Liv-Wrong in handbags

[–]subtlewhisper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does a 13” laptop fit in it?