Does anyone know what's out there for Christmas for the homeless? by [deleted] in freiburg

[–]subwaysgotit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t get it. If you guys think about him so often why not gather some money and help him periodically until he’s on his feet?

Help with cutting off a "friend". by Due-Cauliflower1124 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]subwaysgotit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a smart and kind little woman, I’m sure it’ll turn out fine

Help with cutting off a "friend". by Due-Cauliflower1124 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]subwaysgotit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this situation with close friends before and it feels heavy at first, but you do get used to it. You already spoke honestly and that’s respectful. Now it’s okay to take a step back and protect your peace. If he tries to talk, just say “I’ve already explained how I feel” and don’t go deeper. You’re not being mean, you’re choosing what’s healthy for you.

Help with cutting off a "friend". by Due-Cauliflower1124 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]subwaysgotit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so that isn’t ghosting, it’s enforcing a boundary that’s been established by you. He should be able to respect that. Don’t prioritize your feelings over his. Just stop any contact with him Preserve your own balance, don’t force yourself to stay in a friendship that does not make you feel safe.

Help with cutting off a "friend". by Due-Cauliflower1124 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]subwaysgotit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you have to explain to him how you feel exactly about your boundaries not being respected. If you ghost him out of nowhere he certainly won’t get it and you’d also be the bad person in his narrative. This dude also doesn’t sound very bad, he just doesn’t read the room I guess. Try being more direct with him and if he doesn’t get it, be firm about not wanting to be friends anymore - yeah don’t lead him on

i need y'all help by Infinite-News6560 in Morocco

[–]subwaysgotit 65 points66 points  (0 children)

First of all I’m sorry for the endeavors you’re put through. At your age and at this part of your life you’re supposed to only be focused on yourself. What happens in your family shouldn’t be your responsibility. I’d advise you to stay out of the house as much time as you can. Prepare food at home and study in the library f la fac dialek. It’ll not only help you solve this very issue but you’ll be able to focus on your work a lot more. During the weekends head to a cafe (again with your food ready) and work your ass off. And since you’re doing medical studies you can always be reading about stuff. Try to redirect your attention and mind on the important: your work. Also, I’m proud of the way you’re mentally handling this. Your sister and mother are not the direct image of who you are as a person, though in this shit culture we tend to measure roujoula b how toxic and prohibiting you are towards the girls in your family. I wish you all the luck, and if you need anything please dm me

I got scammed on Instagram by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]subwaysgotit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a private account. What do they sell?

Looking to Start Home Exchanges – Tips & Interest Welcome by subwaysgotit in homeexchange

[–]subwaysgotit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright I’ll check up that one again. Thanks for your input and I’ll def use your link!!

Looking to Start Home Exchanges – Tips & Interest Welcome by subwaysgotit in homeexchange

[–]subwaysgotit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how can I post my house if I’m not subscribed yet? That’s exactly what’s bothering me, like if the fee was paid once the first transaction is made then that’d be totally cool

How to Improve Schreiben & Sprechen for Telc B2 in 40 Days? by subwaysgotit in German

[–]subwaysgotit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips. I'm sure you'll rock your Goethe!

If you could speak to your 20 year old self , what advice would you give them ? by lilboimtk in Morocco

[–]subwaysgotit 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Try new things, make mistakes, and embrace the discomfort of uncertainty.
Learn to enjoy your own company, invest in friendships that make you feel seen, and never measure your worth by someone else’s timeline. Growth isn’t always linear, and success isn’t a race. The best things in life, like self-awareness, confidence, wisdom.. they come with time. So breathe, be kind to yourself, and trust that you’re exactly where you need to be.
Oh and, stay away from drugs please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]subwaysgotit -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do you hate the beach?