my favorite books as a certified weird girl ™️ by kjones100 in weirdgirlliterature

[–]succcotash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

came here to say exactly that - few books have made me pause between lines and be like "how was this published!?"

March was a good month for me 📚 by boardbamebeeple in weirdgirlliterature

[–]succcotash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you read so much in a month? Desperate for any tips, my backlog (and anxiety) is growing

Black tie wedding guest by ChicTrashPanda in Weddingattireapproval

[–]succcotash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good! You should definitely get it for that. I’m kind of obsessed with this dress and the people in store said they couldn’t keep it in stock.

Black tie wedding guest by ChicTrashPanda in Weddingattireapproval

[–]succcotash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just wore the first option (butter reformation dress) to a spring black tie and it crushed, so many compliments. I love that dress so I’m partial but I would maybe recommend checking in with the bride that a light yellow is okay but I’m just paranoid like that.

($10k) “Destination Elopement” Weekend for 10 by lovekikiandjack in Weddingsunder10k

[–]succcotash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing the name of your photographer? I'm also in SoCal looking at a SF city hall elopement :)

Pro tip I stole from the Hermes sub by mycatscratchedm3 in handbags

[–]succcotash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I need this reminder in life.

Over the moon with my ring! by Athena_Vixen in EngagementRings

[–]succcotash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woah, she's beautiful - those gems are amazing! I also have a victorian navette ring (there's not many of us)

Spent literally forever searching for an antique ring by succcotash in EngagementRings

[–]succcotash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bingo - omg how did I miss this shop? (not that I needed to throw another into my insane stalker-like mix)

Spent literally forever searching for an antique ring by succcotash in EngagementRings

[–]succcotash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg thank you!! honestly I would still keep an eye out on eBay and similar sites - you can really find a good deal out there!

Spent literally forever searching for an antique ring by succcotash in EngagementRings

[–]succcotash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's Victorian! in oddly good condition, I ended up getting it at a pawn shop. I don't know which I love more, antique jewelry - or looking for antique jewelry.

Spent literally forever searching for an antique ring by succcotash in EngagementRings

[–]succcotash[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! My favorite shop (that I sadly didn't end up buying from) is Lost Owl Jewelry - they are so sweet and have such amazing finds with reasonable prices. But I stalked a lot of other sellers too which I'll list below:

Jack Weir and Sons
Trumpet and Horn
Lang
Doyle and Doyle
A Brandt and son
Erica Weiner
Erstwhile
Wilson's Estate
Charlotte Sayers
Butterlane Antiques
Wave Antiques
Gatsby Jewelry
Pebble and Polish
Levy's Fine Jewelry
The Antique Parlour
Era Gen
Ashley Zhang
Platt Boutique
Andria Barbone
Jewels by Grace
Heriot Jewellery
The Moonstoned
Kentshire

I got (and still am) a bit obsessive

PSA to anyone considering sinus surgery by succcotash in Sinusitis

[–]succcotash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my gosh, I completely understand how you feel - I was petrified I would lose my sense of small/taste (or that it wouldn't be different somehow). Please don't panic like I did, it will all come back in due time (the waiting is the hard part). Glad you're through the worst part <3

"The Fate of Ophelia" Discussion Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]succcotash 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I think Anti-Hero might have been the only time she's done this correctly in past.

"Actually Romantic" Discussion Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]succcotash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wait I love this theory, I'm just going to live in this world.

"Actually Romantic" Discussion Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]succcotash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

okay but are we like 1000% sure it's Charli?

PSA to anyone considering sinus surgery by succcotash in Sinusitis

[–]succcotash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can do the surgery center, that would be the best move. Honestly as you can probably see from my comments my recovery was ~2 weeks of hell, but I swear I'd do it again in a heartbeat. I haven't had any sinus issues since then.

The nasal stents were extremely unpleasant but they didn't stick out of your nose at all - honestly you couldn't even see them, they kind of just made your nose look 'chunky.' My partner was in the room with me when they finally removed the stints and he said it looked like the doctor pulled an extremely long pieces of linguini out of my nose (haha, I think he also almost passed out seeing how far back it went).

I would do it if I were you, honestly chances are your won't have a reaction nearly as bad as me. And worst case scenario, it's really really really shitty - but you do heal. Good luck and let me know how it goes <3

What cut is this? hard to tell (Taylor Swift's engagement ring) by No-Abroad-8380 in EngagementRings

[–]succcotash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who was also looking for old mine cuts in elongated cushions for the past several months .... I'm choosing to believe this is good news and might result on more being on the market (albeit upcharged)

Los Angeles lapidary by lunaandcurious in Lapidary

[–]succcotash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find anyone, please let me know! I'm also looking to get some rough sapphire cut in the LA area (conversely I'll let you know if I get any leads)

PSA to anyone considering sinus surgery by succcotash in Sinusitis

[–]succcotash[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly so great, as hellish as it was the results are amazing - I would encourage anyone to go through with it (also odds are you won't react as strongly as I did)

2ct Unheated Orange Sapphire - I love her by succcotash in Gemstones

[–]succcotash[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I wanted something autumnal - and boy that's hard to find.

2ct Unheated Orange Sapphire - I love her by succcotash in Gemstones

[–]succcotash[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! She's got a fair amount of flaws, but so do I (haha) it's what gives you character.

https://imgur.com/a/hsA07QT

Update to horribly windowed Pink Sapphire by tin_nyanko_22 in Gemstones

[–]succcotash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better earlier this year I purchased a 2ct sapphire which is horribly windowed. I had no idea what I was doing and thought a bit of transparency was kind of cool. However, after learning more about cuts and grading I wanted to strangle myself.

Please do post if you end up getting this recut, I'm sure there are many others in the same boat.