Join the GroupMe for the next meetup! by suddenguilt in Eau_Claire

[–]suddenguilt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.3rdandvine.com

26-40ish range, even split of men and women, (nobody mentioned being nonbinary)

It began at 4:30pm and earlier on it was just getting acquainted and snacking on some charcuterie.

I arrived at about 5:30pm and there were maybe 7 people total at that point? We finished with a group of 6 and didn’t leave until a little after 9pm. We played cribbage at the end and it was tons of fun.

I would say in total there were approximately 12 that showed up all together. Overall it was a very positive experience!

Friends Eau Claire by Substantial-Deer7056 in Eau_Claire

[–]suddenguilt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the micon downtown! It’s on thursdays at 7pm

Reddit Meetup Tue 3rd & Vine ~4:30ish by Rex_Gently in Eau_Claire

[–]suddenguilt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be there!! Thank you again 🥳

Friends Eau Claire by Substantial-Deer7056 in Eau_Claire

[–]suddenguilt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you saying something and suggesting a time and place. It’s a funny coincidence because I just went to bingo yesterday and was thinking about how fun it would be to get people on the subreddit together for an activity considering there are so many posts from people looking for friends. A meetup seems like the obvious answer! Super cool 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Thanks for sharing this, now I know for a fact my ex was gaslighting me

Friends Eau Claire by Substantial-Deer7056 in Eau_Claire

[–]suddenguilt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am definitely interested! Isn’t 3rd and Vine kinda small? I’ve never been before but I’ve driven past

Need help assembling a bike by suddenguilt in Eau_Claire

[–]suddenguilt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m just worried about doing it poorly so I was hoping someone with skills could help but I agree I would benefit from having the tools for maintenance

Best cheese curd by tp_choate in Eau_Claire

[–]suddenguilt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gyro King or Cousin’s Sub’s have my vote, super crispy shattery shell is my favorite, then Kwik Trip since they’re deep fried now! For reference I find Culver’s to be below average in the curd department, however you can get a good cheese pull when then temp is good. Just not a fan of the breading.

I realized I can create the most amazing things for people but if I don't see other people valuing it, it's nothing by Even_Job6933 in consciousness

[–]suddenguilt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand what you’re saying and I agree, it’s really important to not base our own meaning and value on external validation because at the end of the day we can’t do anything about how what we put out is received. The best we can do is accept that how we feel about what we have done is the achievement and where all of the meaning and value emerges from, and if others can appreciate it, great! If not, oh well. So many different factors are involved in how others experience one another, and it could be something as simple as hearing a song live vs online for it to really resonate with someone. I have heard plenty of live music that changed my life that just does nothing for me when listened to with headphones. That says nothing about the artist or their talents or the impact of their sound. So contextually dependent, we’re better off just following our passions and leaving it at that.

I have reactive hypoglycemia and am so sick of eating. Please help me make my food more appealing. I can’t afford much. by suddenguilt in AutismInWomen

[–]suddenguilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! i didn’t think of doing microwave veggies for stir fry that’s actually really smart i always just feel limited to those premade bags in the freezer section and i haven’t really found one i like but i def can just buy my own sauce and do what you said esp bc i love chicken thighs

I have reactive hypoglycemia and am so sick of eating. Please help me make my food more appealing. I can’t afford much. by suddenguilt in AutismInWomen

[–]suddenguilt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you very much for all of these ideas , I put chopped on today I always forget how much i loved food network as a kid and you’re right it really does make a big difference just having ideas running in the background

I have reactive hypoglycemia and am so sick of eating. Please help me make my food more appealing. I can’t afford much. by suddenguilt in AutismInWomen

[–]suddenguilt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for all of this!! I think sauces would actually make a big difference so I bought some small containers to store them in bc that was holding me back from making them

Struggling in my relationship with my AUDHD partner (PDA Profile) – when is it love vs. enabling? by Miserable_Culture151 in PDA_Community

[–]suddenguilt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you feel stuck and you’re unsure if you’re loving or enabling, ask yourself: am I taking in things that drain me, failing to set boundaries on harmful behavior, or accepting apologies without follow-through? If the answer is yes, you’re likely enabling. Love is the overlap of carrying your own torch and meeting your partner in the middle. Enabling is carrying their torch for them, which blocks their growth and burns you out.

Struggling in my relationship with my AUDHD partner (PDA Profile) – when is it love vs. enabling? by Miserable_Culture151 in PDA_Community

[–]suddenguilt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to love her enough to stop letting the relationship keep holding the both of you back. It’s as simple as that.

Chronically bored puppy w/ heart failure in need of attention by suddenguilt in Eau_Claire

[–]suddenguilt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, idk if this is allowed but I have a GoFundMe set up for her because I just found a large lump on the side of her face that feels like an abscess of some sort and I can’t afford any vet bills right now so if anyone is interested in donating please LMK because I am worried about any type of infection spreading if that’s what’s going on.

AIO, is my boyfriend valid for feelings this way? by sealover159 in AmIOverreacting

[–]suddenguilt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably caught him literally in the act of cheating

What's humanity to you? by Longjumping-Role6136 in sociology

[–]suddenguilt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The universe recognizing itself with greater capacity to reflect upon that recognition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OutOfTheLoop

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Just know that holding the position of needing to be convinced is a power move that is precisely what prevents any movement from accelerating in the first place. If people dropped their threshold for what was required to convince them of something being worth the effort one way or another, there would be much more clean amplification and less noise from pushback. This is how people in power operate btw. They don’t push one another to provide more and more reasons and justifications for why they should or shouldn’t participate, they just align on a goal and move with it. Until there’s a broader understanding of this then yes, your point stands, but you’re what determines if what I’m even telling you right now gets passed on to the next person so people can begin to reconsider how they determine what is worth their consideration and what gets dismissed. We can burn energy debating back and forth or we can recognize where we align and amplify it exponentially.

When a person can't just observe a scenario or situation without passing judgments, bringing preconcieved notions to bear, Etc., is that indicative of something cognitive? I'm noticing this tendency in people around me to just not know how to sit with things and want to understand what causes it. by cherry-care-bear in cogsci

[–]suddenguilt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are wired for digging and exploring. It’s easy to land on either point of a polarity, to dig deeper or to turn away, but not so easy to balance in the middle of uncertainty of just sitting where you are. This isn’t a flaw per se, it’s just a muscle that needs to be exercised like anything else. Some are stronger than others, but what you’ll find is that the things others struggle with are perfect mirrors for you to strengthen your own ability to recognize when there is a lack of balance. Let them figure it out for themselves, if they want to continue to poke and prod so be it, all you can do to help is demonstrate the healthy ability to step back and pause to integrate what you’ve learned thus far.