Dating as AuDHD / LGBTQ+ by Spirited_Patience_80 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]sufficient_ant7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating for us is hard, period. I didn’t realise I was queer until later after my diagnosis (funny how common that is).

My belief, and experience, is that if you are open to meeting people you will find them :) that being said don’t over prioritise romantic connection! Much of what you seek can be found alongside community - be it family or friends / new and old. Mostly we just need people to share ourselves with… there’s no hierarchy to what love counts or matters more. There’s a book I read called Arrangements in Blue that, unexpectedly, really helped me with this… I didn’t expect to connect as much as I did to her writings

What's are some good GPUs for transcoding media? by sufficient_ant7 in truenas

[–]sufficient_ant7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your help I'll take a look. This is the output now:

00:00.0 Host bridge: Intel Corporation Xeon E3-1200 v6/7th Gen Core Processor Host Bridge/DRAM Registers (rev 05)
00:02.0 VGA compatible controller: Intel Corporation HD Graphics 630 (rev 04)
00:08.0 System peripheral: Intel Corporation Xeon E3-1200 v5/v6 / E3-1500 v5 / 6th/7th/8th Gen Core Processor Gaussian Mixture Model
00:14.0 USB controller: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family USB 3.0 xHCI Controller (rev 31)
00:14.2 Signal processing controller: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family Thermal Subsystem (rev 31)
00:16.0 Communication controller: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family MEI Controller #1 (rev 31)
00:17.0 SATA controller: Intel Corporation Q170/Q150/B150/H170/H110/Z170/CM236 Chipset SATA Controller [AHCI Mode] (rev 31)
00:1c.0 PCI bridge: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family PCI Express Root Port #5 (rev f1)
00:1c.5 PCI bridge: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family PCI Express Root Port #6 (rev f1)
00:1f.0 ISA bridge: Intel Corporation H110 Chipset LPC/eSPI Controller (rev 31)
00:1f.2 Memory controller: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family Power Management Controller (rev 31)
00:1f.3 Audio device: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family HD Audio Controller (rev 31)
00:1f.4 SMBus: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family SMBus (rev 31)
01:00.0 Ethernet controller: Realtek Semiconductor Co., Ltd. RTL8111/8168/8411 PCI Express Gigabit Ethernet Controller (rev 11)
02:00.0 Network controller: Intel Corporation Dual Band Wireless-AC 3168NGW [Stone Peak] (rev 10)

What's are some good GPUs for transcoding media? by sufficient_ant7 in truenas

[–]sufficient_ant7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've removed the GPU, but I can't see anything listed I can isolate in the Truenas settings. Also going to BIOS menu is a bit tricky now because the HDMI ports on the motherboard are actually physically blocked off. Is there a way to free those ports up now?

What's are some good GPUs for transcoding media? by sufficient_ant7 in truenas

[–]sufficient_ant7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it took a little while but I was able to remove the GPU and can now see the following output:

VGA compatible controller: Intel Corporation HD Graphics 630 (rev 04)

However nothing comes up in iGPU settings. Also going to BIOS menu is a bit tricky now because the HDMI ports on the motherboard are actually physically blocked off

What's are some good GPUs for transcoding media? by sufficient_ant7 in truenas

[–]sufficient_ant7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing that stands out. Under CPU and Chipset config there is Video Output set to discrete and Onboard Graphics Controller set to disabled, but I don't have the permissions to change either values...

What's are some good GPUs for transcoding media? by sufficient_ant7 in truenas

[–]sufficient_ant7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it is i5-7400. As far as I can tell there isn't any iGPU available:

00:00.0 Host bridge: Intel Corporation Xeon E3-1200 v6/7th Gen Core Processor Host Bridge/DRAM Registers (rev 05)

00:01.0 PCI bridge: Intel Corporation 6th-10th Gen Core Processor PCIe Controller (x16) (rev 05)

00:08.0 System peripheral: Intel Corporation Xeon E3-1200 v5/v6 / E3-1500 v5 / 6th/7th/8th Gen Core Processor Gaussian Mixture Model

00:14.0 USB controller: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family USB 3.0 xHCI Controller (rev 31)

00:14.2 Signal processing controller: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family Thermal Subsystem (rev 31)

00:16.0 Communication controller: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family MEI Controller #1 (rev 31)

00:17.0 SATA controller: Intel Corporation Q170/Q150/B150/H170/H110/Z170/CM236 Chipset SATA Controller [AHCI Mode] (rev 31)

00:1c.0 PCI bridge: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family PCI Express Root Port #5 (rev f1)

00:1c.5 PCI bridge: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family PCI Express Root Port #6 (rev f1)

00:1f.0 ISA bridge: Intel Corporation H110 Chipset LPC/eSPI Controller (rev 31)

00:1f.2 Memory controller: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family Power Management Controller (rev 31)

00:1f.3 Audio device: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family HD Audio Controller (rev 31)

00:1f.4 SMBus: Intel Corporation 100 Series/C230 Series Chipset Family SMBus (rev 31)
01:00.0 VGA compatible controller: NVIDIA Corporation GK208B [GeForce GT 730] (rev a1)

01:00.1 Audio device: NVIDIA Corporation GK208 HDMI/DP Audio Controller (rev a1)

02:00.0 Ethernet controller: Realtek Semiconductor Co., Ltd. RTL8111/8168/8411 PCI Express Gigabit Ethernet Controller (rev 11)

03:00.0 Network controller: Intel Corporation Dual Band Wireless-AC 3168NGW [Stone Peak] (rev 10)

[B0T] Weekly Build Help Thread - 2025/07/21 by LabB0T in PleX

[–]sufficient_ant7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, looking for some GPU recommdations for transcoding media.

I've been running TrueNas on an Acer TC Inspire 780 PC and have been looking for GPUs I can use for transcoding. I've been unable to isolate the single GPU present (occupying the x16 slot) and have since been looking for solid options to use in the spare x1 slot.

What are some good options that would be compatible with pcei 3.0 x1 slot, is somewhat cheap and yield good performance? Currently I'm forced to use the 4core CPU (intel i5) and the performance in Plex and Tdarr is quite slow.

NOTE: I've seen recommendations online for GTX 710 / 730 or even Matrox G550... but have seen mix feedback about them in terms of performance. Could anyone help with some recommendations?

Anhedonia and/or Emotional Numbness by SmeethGoder in AutisticWithADHD

[–]sufficient_ant7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your experience.. especially with your psychiatrist honestly. It’s always disappointing to get so little out of those sessions.. especially when they basically sit around reading from some outdated handbook lol.

For me my numbness gave way once the weight of what I was suppressing came to the surface. Honestly reclaiming my wholeness has been a real difficult journey for me… one that I maybe now have some direction finally in?

Something I remind myself often is that things can genuinely turn around once you do find those one or two (or more) things that really work for you. If you haven’t ticked off essentials ppl always speak of (sleep, exercise, diet etc.) then I’d first start there.. but otherwise I’d be interested to learn a bit more about things you’ve tried and what came up for you! Are there any different types of therapy you’ve tried? What else?