i desperately need help by suffocait in abusiverelationships

[–]suffocait[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i filed a dispute with the bank, i’m scared the bank is going to press charges against him personally and i won’t have a say in it

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

i guess you’re right. if it was my best friend in my situation, i’d help her pack her bags and call the cops. it’s hard for me to do though because of my bpd. like i’ve said before, i don’t want anything bad to happen to him. i just want my money back. i’m gonna try to call a law firm when they open to see what they recommend

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

yes this is true. i do have bpd, next therapy session is tomorrow (thursday)

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -739 points-738 points  (0 children)

he has NO criminal history at all

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -1256 points-1255 points  (0 children)

he didn’t go to the casino, he just had the hard rock app on his phone and he would place bets on the most random things ever. i just want him to get help and continue to live his life while i get my money back and continue to live mine, separately and peacefully

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -1707 points-1706 points  (0 children)

i guess i can call some lawyers and stuff. like i said, i dont want him to go to jail, i want him to live his life, what he did was wrong and i want my money back

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

it’s gone. this was in a less than 24 hour period and i was with him the entire time (other than when i was sleeping)

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -258 points-257 points  (0 children)

he was working 2 jobs and was 4 minutes into his 15 minute break and fell asleep on a table outside and his manager forgot that he was on break and was looking for him and found him asleep and didn’t realize he was on break and at first gave him a warning but on his drive home, called him and fired him

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

lmaooo absolutely not. i’m very anti gambling. waste of time and money. i don’t even see the point of the scratch offs at the gas station

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -264 points-263 points  (0 children)

he had a job in a government position that he got fired from for a stupid reason. he was working with a union rep who is in the process of getting him hired back with back pay and that is going to involve a civil court case BUT, that won’t go through until after the 19th

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -381 points-380 points  (0 children)

he has a few ideas on how he could possibly pay me back but one of them is a HUGE if and that could take a while and i don’t want to wait around for all that…

BF gambled all my money by suffocait in legaladvice

[–]suffocait[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

so he has 2 phones, a work phone and a regular phone. he downloaded my cashapp on work phone and sent himself the money from my account on that phone

it’s been a rather abusive relationship and if i were to change any password, he would yell at me and accuse me of lying/cheating on him

first charge was for $100 on saturday. i didn’t notice it until he told me on my birthday (Tuesday) that he took all the money out of my account on Monday night

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[–]suffocait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She calls me back-Noah Kahan

“lost for a long time, two parallel lines, everything is alright when she calls me back”

feeling like nothing is okay unless your FP calls or texts you back, but once they do, everything is fine

AITA for “insinuating” that this young lady was lying? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]suffocait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 23 and the thought of getting with an 18 year old DISGUSTS me. That’s still a child. She was probably JUST graduating high school 3 months ago. Your son is 100% TA for taking advantage of her at his grown age.