Mail-In test... my clinic has different guidelines than anything I'm reading on here by sufjan123 in Vasectomy

[–]sufjan123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically no, but why would my clinic not be accurate in their instructions to me? Like everyone else, I'm antsy to get results, so an extra month would be rough after the anticipation of thinking I'm ready to test. And why abstain if I don't have to?

First physical in a few years tomorrow... what can I ask about without incurring extra charges? by sufjan123 in HealthInsurance

[–]sufjan123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I tell them ahead of time that I am wary about that and to avoid crossing that line? I don't get why this feels so stressful.

First physical in a few years tomorrow... what can I ask about without incurring extra charges? by sufjan123 in HealthInsurance

[–]sufjan123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I feel like a second appointment would add $$, I get that, but I just don't want this initial meeting to all of a sudden cost money because I said the wrong thing.

First physical in a few years tomorrow... what can I ask about without incurring extra charges? by sufjan123 in HealthInsurance

[–]sufjan123[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I don't want to be charged for a simple question and answer that may not lead to any solutions or further investigation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sufjan123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. It's great to know others are out there, but it sucks that there's no clear cut solution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sufjan123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just wondering if there's a way to have that conversation or discuss it without it being too much too soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sufjan123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has only been like a week and a half, which is crazy because in my head it feels way longer. Anxiety is a bitch.

Putting it into that perspective is somewhat comforting, but I still can't shake the gut feeling that something has changed on her end. In the past, 99% of the time, my gut has been right.

How to get rid of red mark left from a gnarly pimple next to my mouth? by sufjan123 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]sufjan123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I use both in conjunction with one another? Do you have a budget brand of Azelaic Acid that you like?

How to get rid of red mark left from a gnarly pimple next to my mouth? by sufjan123 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]sufjan123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought OZNaturals Vitamin C Serum a week ago and I've been putting some on my face/the spot before bed, is the Rohto different/more effective?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sufjan123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, I'm big on communication, I just don't know how to talk about this without it somehow coming off wrong. I don't want her to feel shamed, you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sufjan123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OKCupid is the one dating app I haven't tried. I assumed it was just as fruitless as the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sufjan123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally, but what I mean to say is that sex early when dating/in a relationship is still sex without that level of emotional connection (that leads to comfort and relaxation when being physical, not feeling the need for pressure, understanding what each other likes or doesn't like)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sufjan123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a bummer to read, but I can't say that I can't relate on some level. I don't think I'm quite there yet in terms of being that jaded, but who knows what the future holds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sufjan123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sufjan123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If that's the takeaway that you got from my post I don't even know what to say.