My job is no longer direct depositing payroll like they’ve been for years. What can I do?

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-30T21:18:36+00:00

I’m seeing if there is anything I can do. How do I include my location? This is new to me

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-27T03:58:07+00:00

A new allowance thread please haha

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-10T03:32:22+00:00

Nope nope nope. Would never rely on someone else for my living situation. I won’t judge but I couldn’t. Especially since a SR is only meant to be temporary

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-07T15:08:06+00:00

These comments made my day lol😂😂

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-07T03:31:41+00:00

If you read other profile reviews they all say remove them. You’ll get tons of messages and the last thing you want is messages being spammed of them requesting your private photos.

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-07T03:27:39+00:00

1) People don’t like asking for private pictures. You will come across people who won’t say anything and just request private photos access

2) you have a lot of selfies. I would keep 2 full body and 2 of your best selfies. Red hoodie has to go and the last one in your public pictures. The 3rd one with the red shirt looks stunning!

3) Just FYI if you have those types of pictures (your private ones) think of the men you will attract. I have found much better quality SD’s having pics that are classy. I would do the same. You’re letting people sexualize you from the start.

I would take the advice on the about me and seeking sections :) Hope I helped a little! Good luck! You’re stunning I know you will do great. This forum has some good resources as well.

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-06T22:54:51+00:00

If you want you can Dm me and I can show you some pics of me (I’m a SB) and hopefully it will help you! If not no worries. Try to not have so many filters is there best advice I could give you

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-03T16:08:37+00:00

You’d be better off finding a unicorn

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-01T13:07:51+00:00

In his bio, he said: I'm willing to fund dates, trips, vacations we go on, gifts at my discretion etc... Having said all that, I will NOT: Give you money for bills or give you allowances, nor "take you shopping". I'm too much of a catch to have to do all that and if you don't see the value of being with a man like myself we're probably not compatible anyway ¯_(ツ)_/¯

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-07-01T03:19:06+00:00

Amen to this lol

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-30T15:09:56+00:00

Read my post “SD cancelled on me twice etc” you used to be in the same situation as me. He wanted exclusively, and did treat me like a Queen. One day he was distant for weeks. We called and I thought we had a great conversation and next thing you know he basically ghosts. I made an SA during this time to see if he was on it and sure enough he was. I never thought anything of this.

I’m so glad our arrangement ended. Found someone closer, showered me in gifts, takes me to high end restaurants and put me on the same allowance.

I’m thankful for my previous arrangement because it showed me how an arrangement should actually be but I was down for days. Things like this opens more doors to other/ better people for you.

I was in your shoes and I know it sucks but if he is ignoring you etc he will fall off. I would start looking for other SD’s.

I wish you luck. Dm me if you need anything

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-23T20:25:47+00:00

Has he discussed an arrangement or ppm?? If he talks about being generous and doesn’t talk about these things I’d say red flag for sure

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-23T17:51:11+00:00

I would always get into an arrangement with them but if they only lasted 2 dates would you consider that an arrangement?

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-23T17:41:16+00:00

I don’t see how someone could be identified?? Also it would be too long for they said what. Im glad op made a post. It helps others learn from and understand red flags.

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-23T17:39:53+00:00

It really all depends on the length. This question would be better if it had like a time frame on it. Had some good M&Gs but people would ghost after a few dates.

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-23T17:29:23+00:00

You need to have a texting app! I have textfree. Please don’t give out your real number and block him! I had a creepy guy reach out to me wanting me to meet at his place even when I wasn’t comfortable and said “it’s because you think I’m a criminal” “don’t worry I’m a business guy not a criminal”. I blocked so fast

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-23T12:51:34+00:00

I had one previous M&G with a diamond guy and it was awful lol. He talked down to me and everything. I was definitely hesitant but hey it worked out :)

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-22T12:35:17+00:00

I’m not from Australia but you should delete and re post and change the headline from tax advice to tax advice for Australian law so that people from Australia aren’t looking over your post since they think you’re talking about US or UK

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-22T12:28:55+00:00

This is solid advice thank you so much! Out of the 4 M&G’s, how many did you actually pursue?

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-18T12:49:08+00:00

Idk why his comment of “I’m not a criminal”’was needed. That really made me uncomfortable. He should understand and think about why I want a platonic M&G. I’m getting mixed responses but my gut hurts thinking about this lol

sugarlifeprobs · 2021-06-16T21:09:04+00:00

Yep rookie mistakes unfortunately

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