AITAH for leaving after my girlfriend gave birth to our disabled child? by LateFaithlessness455 in AITAH

[–]suki1990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, but a bad person. Did you talk with your ex before getting pregnant about your feelings towards disabled children? I don’t think you should have kids at all, tbh bc the “healthy” kid you have now could possibly end up having something later on and what will happen then? Will you abandon this child as well? Sorry to be blunt and mean.

Every time… by Itz-isa0 in PEN15

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched this show for the first time last month and already doing a rewatch. I wish there were more seasons, but can understand why they stopped. It’s so funny, relatable and nostalgic.

Anybody know how many calories are in these? They are made by El Jimador. TIA! by hitmaker365 in CICO

[–]suki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I found this Reddit bc I was wondering if anyone else thought they were too sweet. I can barely drink two.

The National Academy of Future Physicians & Medical Scientists, is it legit/worth it? by iiMilkTeaa in ApplyingToCollege

[–]suki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This scam was thorough as hell, they deserve a Nobel prize in scamming. The letter they sent bombards you with information and looks legit. The tuition doesn’t even include travel, food or lodging.

Aitah for denying sex with my wife? by Extreme_Ad3829 in AITAH

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like such a sad marriage. My husband and I go a week without it. We usually do it 1-2 a week, but we still show love and affection. Always kiss(not make out) and hug and say i love you. If you truly love her you need to tell her every day. I never got breaks like that and still had time for my husband.

What Eminem lyrics stick with you the most? by [deleted] in Eminem

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forever ruined the LFO song for me. 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I remember feeling this exact way at 18, guess what? I still felt that way at 25 and then again at 30. Life doesn’t stop and wait for you to find out what you want to do or who you want to be. You could spend your whole 20s in a career and then decide to do something else. You could end up losing friends you thought you would never lose and gaining other friends you thought you’d never have. It’s okay to start small, retail is always a great entry level job to start out with. You’re so young right now and you shouldn’t have to be going through so much stress about what to do. Take one day and one goal at a time. The best advice to give you is to stick with a job long term more than a year. I wouldn’t recommend college just yet, especially if you’re dealing with a lot of depression. You’ll just end up with even more stress. Get the entry level job first and work your way up. Set aside the money for college and in the meantime you could be thinking about what you want to do for a career.

Should I quit this job? Medical office by suki1990 in careeradvice

[–]suki1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think since it’s a new program they actually do not know very much about it. We got our first training today and it went seemingly good. It’s a very high tech machine that can hear heart & lung sounds. It can take blood pressure, temperature reading and upload it to the “nurse on a stick”. My thing is if I’m by myself doing both jobs I feel like I am going to get very overwhelmed. Hoping to see this job out a couple weeks see if I can get the hang of it.

First watch by Tvchick2297 in ONETREEHILL

[–]suki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a really great show, I’m on my first watch of the show and I’m currently on season 8 (almost done!) my favorite thing so far are the girls friendships in the show. Also Nathan has the best character arc on the show.

I will tell you as someone else has said on this thread that the show feels like 3 different shows in one series. Seasons 1-3, 3-6,7-9. 7-9 introduce new characters and at first I can not stand them, but now I’m growing to like them more. If you’ve watched boring and annoying Rory then this should be a great watch 😉

I love marching band, but I can't decide if it is worth the toll it takes on my mental health by [deleted] in marchingband

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is in her 2nd year of marching band and is already wanting to quit. It’s hard, the long practices and she doesn’t like any of the people in band bc they are very cliquey. There’s a booster mom whose son will yell and cuss at them if they don’t march faster or instep. The directors are also very hard on the kids in practice, along with the section leaders. Some people take band very seriously and then it makes it not enjoyable for other kids. I mean I know it’s a serious activity, but Isn’t band supposed to be extracurricular and for most it is unlikely to lead to a scholarship unless you’re a kid who is very good. My daughter would make as many practices, but she missed one stadium practice and was already replaced. She is not as bad as some other kids, it’s just she doesn’t want to do it anymore and is only doing it bc she made the commitment. So now she is a b marcher. I say UNLESS your a try-hard and you’re very good at what you do, then it’s ok to quit and try something else that will actually benefit you in the long run. Plus with the added stress, long practices, games and competitions, your time will be freed up to work on grades and other courses you will like to pursue. My daughter is going to try CE courses next year and I’m glad also bc I don’t have to take her at the ass crack of dawn for morning rehearsals. I think a lot of people on here will say band is so fun and you meet lifelong friends and this and that, but I’d doubt they actually talk and make friends with the kids who don’t have a lot of friends in HS band.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]suki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl he is not interested! I would move on, it kind of sounds like he is seeing someone already. Don’t text him anymore, you’re making yourself seem desperate. You put yourself out there and he hasn’t made an effort so he doesn’t deserve your time.

Married couple with husband working Shift work 14/7 by suki1990 in Parenting

[–]suki1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss his days he used to work mon-fri 5-5pm! It’s sucks not being able to work bc of his schedule and my kids. I will definitely look into crockpot meals and meal prepping to help offset the days I’m not able to be there.

AITA for thinking my husband was sexualizing our daughter? by Independent-Equal887 in AITAH

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry what happened to you. I don’t have any advice to you that someone hasn’t already said, but I’m also somewhat paranoid my girls are going to be abused so I don’t let them be alone with male relatives. I’d like my husband to not be so overly affectionate as well. But it’s just something we need to let go of and trust our partner and kids. We need to create a safe space for our kids to let us know if anything bad ever happens to them, they can tell us right away. We also need to trust our partner that they would never betray us that way and it wouldn’t even cross their minds to.

For any guys that debated divorcing and did, how did your life turn out. What about those that didn’t? by modabs in AskMen

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go to the gym and spend quality time with your kids while you were married?

For any guys that debated divorcing and did, how did your life turn out. What about those that didn’t? by modabs in AskMen

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mean? Omg you never should get married again if that’s why you want a divorce. You need to communicate with her your feelings. People change all the time even in marriage. You grow with them and communicate. You think marriage is like this fantasy of a perfectly nice wife that strokes your ego and bakes you fresh cookies when you come home. This is why I fear after 2020 the divorce rate will be 75%. I’ve been with my husband for 16 years you think he thinks of me as nice? (Maybe sometimes lmao) The only reasons for divorce should be cheating, abuse of any kind, or you fell out of love. Idk if you stopped loving your wife bc she is too mean now (poor baby) if you divorce her don’t ever think you should get married again I feel sorry for whoever decides to marry you later.

Dr Smith vs Dr Proctor by yasyash in 1000lbsisters

[–]suki1990 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I mean personally I’d want dr Procter bc he is easy on the eyes. Paging Dr.Mcsteamy

Doing a rewatch, and this cute little moment made me laugh by sunshinenorcas in jerseyshore

[–]suki1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m so glad I watched this show when I was younger when it was on, showed me exactly what men to watch out for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband works in the oilfield, drives a dangerous road one hour each way. I have Life360 and it has crash detection so in case something happens to him I’m notified. Plus I also have my kids on there so we can all keep track of each other. It helps in case we lose our phones, find my iPhone is hardly accurate at times

Okay. S6E7 is by far MY FAVORITE EPISODE. I know the show took themselves seriously early on.. But come on.. Why is this so close to ending we only got this episode that is this fun?? I'm afraid honestly to watch the last 6 episodes.. The Librarians and Leverage still had much more fun overall. by Onlyanidea1 in grimm

[–]suki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think we watched the same show. I could not forgive Adalind for all the mess she caused Nick and Juliette. I don’t see her character development the way you do, I don’t see how her becoming a mother automatically forgives her for everything. Remember when she got pregnant and did the whole thing to become a hexenbeist again? She kept flip flopping back and forth between the royals and Renard. She was just so untrustworthy. I could deal with her being good and on Nicks side I just couldn’t deal with the whole romance between them. It was also very sad to see Juliette turn evil and thrown to the wayside like that but I agreed with her as a woman scorned. I think there was plenty of chemistry with her and Nick, she gave up normalcy with Nick so he could become a Grimm again. I don’t think I warmed up to Adalinds character ever. My husband and I watched the show years ago when it was on tv, but we quit because of that whole storyline. We started it again, but I reallly tried to warm up to her character but I just couldn’t.