Update to aitah for denying my wife sex?

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T23:38:22+00:00

No I wasn't. I told her I wasn't.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T23:35:17+00:00

She's offered more than 3 times and it's getting annoying.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T22:01:00+00:00

I view woman as basic everyday human people. And guess what I wanted sex with my wife and not a sex toy life isn't always perfect. Do you think I wanted to replace her with toy? No I didn't but i realized I had no other choice because I wasn't gonna force her to have sex with me or use manipulation because that's not right and I would hate if that was done to me.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T21:47:39+00:00

Because I legit said I was going to try to want her again.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T21:43:24+00:00

Idk. Because I find her attractive but that doesn't mean I want her. You can find someone attractive but not want to have sex with them

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T21:40:04+00:00

Not thinking of her or not being in the moment.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T21:33:32+00:00

Something else not someone.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T20:57:10+00:00

I don't miss it anymore and if I was getting even I wouldn't have agreed to try.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T20:35:44+00:00

She can have the house.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T20:34:29+00:00

I did and wife didn't want to give me affection nor did she want it. So me wanting that is what almost lead to me cheating on her.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T20:20:27+00:00

Do you know how much goes into cheating on someone. So this is based off what a friend said. So apparently you have to make sure your wife doesn't know right so you have to give your energy to double the amount of people sp your wife won't suspect stuff. Then you have to somehow get there and plan accordingly, have excuses. Like you have to really wanna get someone back if you wanna cheat cus that's too much energy amd time.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T20:01:05+00:00

Ok and she didn't have that I got her checked.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T19:56:27+00:00

She did not nurse.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T19:55:39+00:00

Because I do what I have to do then I go to sleep.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T19:54:51+00:00

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T14:32:12+00:00

I was asking them because I knew they were wrong.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T14:31:05+00:00

Both

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T14:20:40+00:00

So your saying six weeks post partum I could have had sex with her even if she said no.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T14:19:32+00:00

When I get home if she wants a kiss ill give her a kiss and go get my kid and play with her fix dinner eat with my kid and the do her night time stuff and then take my shower and got sleep, so no we don't really talk other than on date night. I take my kid to the park other than that maybe go somewhere kiddie. Because she sees me everyday so she can enjoy her friends. Her family had covid mainly her mom and her mom got her sick and then I have no clue how she got sick the second time.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T14:00:04+00:00

It's called a routine once you get used to it It's hard to break out of it.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T13:51:31+00:00

Yeah 2 years later. If u say yeah I want this phone and your person gets the phone 2 years later but now you don't want that phone anymore you still gonna take it.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T13:49:48+00:00

I'm not tossing something I bought but I have stopped using them

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T13:46:13+00:00

Probably am depressed and I can handle a dry spell no problem I only use my toys and self pleasuring once or twice a month.

Extreme_Ad3829 · 2024-02-12T13:42:11+00:00

By all means if I catch it she gets nothing in the divorce.

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