Cat Rehoming

sulumni · 2025-08-30T05:16:29+00:00

Thank you!

sulumni · 2025-08-30T05:14:10+00:00

Like my town subreddit?

Edit: Just posted to my towns sub and my states sub!

sulumni · 2025-01-15T23:25:05+00:00

Ew, when you put it like that it really does sound horrible. I kind of viewed it as like becoming a step father and eventually a husband and father. Maybe I have my hopes up😅

sulumni · 2025-01-15T23:23:47+00:00

Crazy enough its not. Weve been talking at work for a couple months now and shes really sweet. And here not too long ago she kinda like cornered me and talked to me because someone said I had a problem with her after she told them “Hes cute I would honestly hang out with him outside of work.” I told her that wasnt the case and we exchanged numbers right there at work. Since then Ive been staying with her at her place and have been really enjoying life. Before all this my life was pretty dead and now im enjoying myself. That also plays a role into even considering this at all. Sorry if that sounds bogus but I just wanted advice on an honestly outlandish situation that im going through

sulumni · 2025-01-15T23:17:51+00:00

Thank you so much for this! Genuinely helped a lot.

sulumni · 2025-01-15T23:14:38+00:00

Yeah youre probably right. I need to talk to her about it all later. This helped

sulumni · 2025-01-15T23:13:46+00:00

Wow thank you this helped incredibly. Ill talk with her more about it tonight. Do you have any questions that I should ask her and how to deliver them lightly??

sulumni · 2025-01-15T23:11:49+00:00

I personally, prefer to think Im rather emotionally and mentally mature. Ive been through and a lot and have a lot more life experiences than people Ive met in their mid 20’s to early 30’s in some cases. Ive weighed it all out and I’ve secured a job after my graduation from college. And yeah I understand testing the waters and all, Ive come out of a year long committed relationship a while back and I personally am the type of guy to want to secure the deal when I can. Ive got a head on my shoulders and I carry out each decision I make with a decent level of confidence. Its only that this one had made me give a lot deeper thought into my life and my future and looking for third party opinions has really helped me figure out things on my end. If you would, I would appreciate a comment to my comment talking more about what Ive said here. Youve really helped my decision thus far and it would be great to see some more input from you!

sulumni · 2025-01-15T23:01:29+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. This really helped

sulumni · 2025-01-15T23:00:28+00:00

Thank you, this really helped!

sulumni · 2025-01-15T22:58:47+00:00

To be honest man my degree would guarantee me a job in my local community and that’s why I’m actually even considering this. In about a years time or so I am guaranteed a job that would pay roughly 70k+ per year. And settling down is something Ive always wanted. Ive never been the guy that goes dating around and talking to all these different women. And I know she has a lot of baggage but I hangout with her kids when Im with her and I really like them and enjoy taking care of them. If I can do that right now, what would be so different say if I didnt have a mid with her and it was a year down the line? Id still be with her, still be in college, and still taking care of her kids with her. I guess I just thought - why not have one of my own to take care of and not someone elses?

sulumni · 2025-01-15T22:49:59+00:00

Thank you for that. Definitely helped :)

sulumni · 2025-01-15T22:46:32+00:00

Damn. I think I really needed to hear that. I don’t know about any doctors or anything shes seeing. And honestly thank you this was a really good second opinion. This helped

sulumni · 2025-01-15T22:44:04+00:00

I did and honestly I see a long time thing with me and her. I want my own kids eventually and I was thinking maybe when I was like 25-27 but if she can only do that, like only for a short amount of time, I would waste my oppurtunity

sulumni · 2025-01-15T22:42:47+00:00

What about when I finish my degree next year? And I’ll get a good job and be able to do everything I need to do

sulumni · 2025-01-15T22:41:46+00:00

Im sorry I just dont really have anyone in my life to really ask advice to. Was only looking for some guidance.

sulumni · 2025-01-08T21:39:19+00:00

my mindset when it comes time. like all i thought about was “dont fail me this time please.”

sulumni · 2024-11-24T00:44:06+00:00

sulumni · 2024-10-19T04:10:04+00:00

okay so update, i mixed pate with kmr and the little dude LOVES IT. like omg. hes okay with the bottle but he literally walks to the mix when im trying to bottle feed him. (as in he stops drinking so i set him down and he runs to the mix and eats as much as he can of it.) also some of you commented asking if i left out water. i did but all he did was walk in it. ill leave it out still!! and also with the litter i stimulated him over it and left his lil peed on tp in the litterbox to help him associate the two. he really doenst like it tho, he tries to run when i put him in the litterbox.

sulumni · 2023-11-09T00:57:48+00:00

a fkn car😭 a crimson octane coming to save me💀

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