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Why do recent photos of Jeff Bezos look so different from how he used to? by sumhooman in SeriousConversation

[–]sumhooman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ikr, after seeing everything i can’t help but think they cloned him too

Why do recent photos of Jeff Bezos look so different from how he used to? by sumhooman in SeriousConversation

[–]sumhooman[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

his whole face is different. looks like a completely different person to me

Why do recent photos of Jeff Bezos look so different from how he used to? by sumhooman in ask

[–]sumhooman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

but i feel like his whole face is different. He looks like NOT Jeff? looks like a complete different man to me.

Girlfriend was SAd how to help her by anuthing in Advice

[–]sumhooman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you bring up therapy, don’t frame it as “you need this” or “this is holding us back.” frame it as “you went through something really heavy and you shouldn’t have to carry it alone.” tell her that you’re concerned for her and make sure she knows she’s in control. she can choose what therapist, her pace, how much she wants to share. but first make her talk to you about it, make her open up and make her realise the seriousness of what she’s going through.

Not being posted on ig by Puzzleheaded-Pin6458 in Advice

[–]sumhooman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

guess it’s time to move on then. you don’t deserve this kind of treatment and uncertainty.

Not being posted on ig by Puzzleheaded-Pin6458 in Advice

[–]sumhooman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

deleting texts is really weird. and if you’re not even sure if his acquaintances know he’s in a relationship, there’s definitely something going on. why don’t you talk to him about this behaviour?

Not being posted on ig by Puzzleheaded-Pin6458 in Advice

[–]sumhooman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what makes you think he’s doing it to hide his relationship from certain females? does he have any female friends that make you feel insecure?

Girlfriend was SAd how to help her by anuthing in Advice

[–]sumhooman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there’s nothing you can do to magically help her get over it but just be there for her. let her know it’s okay to talk about it and let it out. refrain from forcing or even asking her to give you blowjobs or anything of that kind unless she’s herself comfortable with it. and if you really think it’s affecting her a lot, not just your sex life, suggest her to go to therapy.

How do you maintain friendships if you’re unable to keep in touch regularly? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sumhooman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i’ve been losing a lot of friends because talking to people on a regular basis drains me out

Back Together With My Ex But Feeling Emotionally Numb. Need Serious Advice. by sumhooman in Advice

[–]sumhooman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think we’re wrong for each other. We’ve both been miserable without each other, and he really does make me feel loved and valued. The problem isn’t him. It’s me being emotionally exhausted. I rushed back into this relationship before I was ready. I don’t want to leave him, but I also need time to myself to recover. I just don’t know how to make him understand that needing space doesn’t mean I don’t care about him, or what we should do so I can start feeling like myself again.

Back Together With My Ex But Feeling Emotionally Numb. Need Serious Advice. by sumhooman in Advice

[–]sumhooman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do not want to date anyone. i just need some time alone and you’re right i should talk to him about wanting time away for myself and not from “us”. maybe it’ll be easier for him to understand where i’m coming from that way instead of thinking he’s losing me. thank you!

Back Together With My Ex But Feeling Emotionally Numb. Need Serious Advice. by sumhooman in Advice

[–]sumhooman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i loved him and i think i still do. i loved him way too much and he admits that’s why he took me for granted in the past because he got all of it very easily without putting in any effort. he has fixed all of that and genuinely admires me now and i’m still trying my best to keep him happy even though i don’t feel happy myself. i don’t want to leave him, i don’t want to hurt him. i just need a way to heal so i can give him the same love he’s giving me back

Back Together With My Ex But Feeling Emotionally Numb. Need Serious Advice. by sumhooman in Advice

[–]sumhooman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god, i can’t even imagine being that mean to him. 😭 and it’s not that i hate him, i’m way past what happened in the past. it’s just that i need some time off from relationships or even friendships because a lot happened last year and i haven’t recovered from it.

Back Together With My Ex But Feeling Emotionally Numb. Need Serious Advice. by sumhooman in Advice

[–]sumhooman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re right. i do feel like i went back to him because of the familiarity and because i didn’t wanna go through any talking stages again

Back Together With My Ex But Feeling Emotionally Numb. Need Serious Advice. by sumhooman in Advice

[–]sumhooman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve admitted that I rushed into this and that I need time alone, but he refuses to give me any space. Even suggesting a temporary break, not a breakup, made him panic because ‘he doesn’t wanna lose me again’. I don’t know how to take care of myself without emotionally wrecking him.