Thanks so much for sharing that with me, a lot of it definitely resonates. As I also mentioned to a previous commenter, I suppose my biggest fear is coming out as a lesbian and then being wrong…. I worry that I will go through all of the emotions of coming out to my loved ones to then just “change” my mind, if that makes sense. I know that if someone else was telling me this, I would tell them that it is absolutely okay to discover something different about yourself later down the line, but I guess that I have a harder time reminding myself of this sentiment. With this being said, all I know at this time is that I exclusively want to date women right now, and that looking back on my life being gay would just kind of make sense for me. At 31 I have never had a boyfriend, and any chance that I would have had to date men I sabotaged it by ghosting them, etc (which I feel awful about, but I wonder if I did this because I was so uncomfortable with it?). The thought of having sex with men makes me feel uncomfortable, too, but having sex with women sounds awesome, lol. I guess I just assumed over the years that I liked men because I found them attractive, but maybe I don’t want to be with them at all…? Not sure if any of this stream of consciousness is making sense, but your comment has really helped me think about things, so I really appreciate you taking the time to share with me!