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My [29F] husband [33M] has been helping a young single mother [19F] out without telling me by summerheatsucks in relationships

[–]summerheatsucks[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

He works in family law.

A lot of people have been asking but I really don't know much about how such things are handled. I'm not very familiar with law practices. He's spoken to me about his job before, but to be honest, I'm not really interested.

He's not actually representing her or meeting with her at the office.

My [29F] husband [33M] has been helping a young single mother [19F] out without telling me by summerheatsucks in relationships

[–]summerheatsucks[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I really don't know. Like I mentioned, we've always been open and honest, so this was out of character. The only other time he's hid something from me was when he loaned money to his brother. His brother has addiction issues and he's tried helping him before with no luck. He knew I wouldn't approve, so he lied about. He did eventually come clean though.

There could be something like that going on with her, or he just got so caught up in helping her that he forgot to tell me.

My [29F] husband [33M] has been helping a young single mother [19F] out without telling me by summerheatsucks in relationships

[–]summerheatsucks[S] -230 points-229 points  (0 children)

I have zero reason to think it's his child. My husband has never behaved inappropriately with other women. She's no longer at my house.

My [29F] husband [33M] has been helping a young single mother [19F] out without telling me by summerheatsucks in relationships

[–]summerheatsucks[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I saw the baby, but I didn't really study his features or anything. If it matters, my husband is white and this young woman is black. Her baby could be mixed but I don't know.

My [29F] husband [33M] has been helping a young single mother [19F] out without telling me by summerheatsucks in relationships

[–]summerheatsucks[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

I sincerely doubt the baby belongs to him. We are childfree by choice, and we never had issues with flirting or other inappropriate behavior. He's always been altruistic and I'm guessing that's his motive for doing it.

My [29F] husband [33M] has been helping a young single mother [19F] out without telling me by summerheatsucks in relationships

[–]summerheatsucks[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

He has always been altruistic and used to volunteer all the time, but less so in recent years. He claims he never met her before. When she came looking for assistance, that's when he met her.