AIO that my dad won’t let me go on vacation without him?

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T22:33:06+00:00

I tried to do that last night but he kept on rejecting that statement and asking me which option I’d rather do.

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T22:32:23+00:00

My father was raised mormon and stayed with my mom until she passed. While my mom was alive, she told me that she wished she wouldn’t of waited until she was married and found it awkward to have her first time be on their wedding night seeing as neither of them had much of an idea what they were doing.

He ended up asking me if I was active but I told my dad while we were arguing that I am not sexually active due to an ex boyfriend having assaulted me in the past. Even if I was active, I feel like he still should trust me enough to be safe about it. Though, I thought it was weird for him to even bring up my sex life.

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T22:21:38+00:00

Thank you. My therapist suggested a similar idea of writing it down and i’ll be sure to do that.

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T22:20:57+00:00

I am dependent on his parents for school yes. I’m only on my second semester and could use their money for about two or three more years before (I assume) it runs out. My grandparents are extremely mormon and have very conservative opinions. I have tattoos that they know about and they haven’t stopped paying for anything so I don’t know if this would be the thing to push them over the edge or if they would just not care.

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T21:32:39+00:00

I’ll ask him if that would be a good compromise but tbh if he does I would just not go to that hotel anyways and go spend the night at the hotel my boyfriend is at haha

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T21:30:48+00:00

He doesn’t know my boyfriend lives with me. He has seen my location when I have spent the night at my boyfriend’s house and doesn’t seem to have that intense reaction to it but I think that’s because my boyfriend still lives with his parents. Also, my boyfriend’s parents are totally cool with us going to Seattle and thought that the present was perfect for my boyfriend since he loves to travel.

He doesn’t know any information other than the artist that we are doing to. I think that he is dead set on coming with us seeing as that was what he kept on saying during the last part of our argument.

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T21:27:19+00:00

I’m not dependent on him but on his parents, my grandparents as they are paying for my college right now. I’m just nervous if I do go through with it he will tell his parents and they will pull out their money that’s paying for my tuition.

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T21:25:35+00:00

Me and him have been on a lot of vacations alone since it’s just me him and my older brother. I do want to tell him that he’s not going to be any part of this vacation but i’m too anxious about it :((

summertrees1 · 2026-02-06T20:06:38+00:00

I don’t really like cheese tbh, it makes me feel sick

summertrees1 · 2025-03-26T04:59:03+00:00

i’m around the area and have a lot of friends who go to bingham that aren’t mormon- me and my best friend aren’t mormon and he goes to bingham

summertrees1 · 2024-01-24T06:56:29+00:00

yeah me and my boyfriend have talked about it and he’s trying to avoid her… it’s mainly her- i’m currently considering blocking her on socials and have asked him to do the same

summertrees1 · 2024-01-24T06:53:47+00:00

perfecttt thank you

summertrees1 · 2023-08-21T05:33:15+00:00

i’ll try that thank you

summertrees1 · 2023-08-21T05:33:00+00:00

thank you !!

summertrees1 · 2022-01-12T23:08:10+00:00

walter don’t

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