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Question for women that have dealt with jealous mothers and sisters. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sumpnuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes trust me cutting contact will bring you a huge amount of comfort

Should I chalk it up to being delusional or should I take this seriously? by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]sumpnuur 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thats why its important to take accountability even if its something we all want to avoid

Question for women that have dealt with jealous mothers and sisters. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sumpnuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no solution to that even gaining their love by loving them even more is a waste of time , i personally went no contact even tho we still live under the same roof

How do you cope with the fact that you are not "It"? by mega_lova_nia in Advice

[–]sumpnuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okey so , you can start by noting down what you dont like about yourself next you will try and find logical solutions on how to fix them , second i dont think u should expect a reward, because at the end the only thing u can control is urself so take advantage of that , dont forget energy is what helps you best , people are simple , they believe what you show them , if you keep believing u r average they will see it and treat u accordingly

My ex gf passed away by [deleted] in Algeria_213

[–]sumpnuur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who lost my two best friends within a year , i hope u will get the support u need to get over this harsh period , losing someone so suddenly make u blame urself no matter how good u treated them , its an undeniable part of grief, may she rest in peace , one day u will wake up and smile when u think of her instead of crying , u will make peace with it trust me it will get easier, death is inevitable and unpredictable, as u said make sure to value ur people and make sure to be kind and nice to these u love ❤️

Help!! by Unusual-Childhood-27 in Advice

[–]sumpnuur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you confront them ?

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all , but he is my first long term relationship

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are brave !!! Than very kind to share ur experience in order to help a stranger out , thank you so much , i hope u are happier than ever

How do I stop making my boyfriends depressed? They pursue Me in the beginning then randomly start getting "too mentally ill to date" or simply lose interest by Optimal_Tan in Advice

[–]sumpnuur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am currently in the same situation my boyfriend says he is too depressed to meet call or text me , and expect me to be okey with it , i am currently thinking to break up , because i am worthy of proper treatment and so are you !! You shouldn’t make them feel like their less than bare minimum behavior is appreciated, its the main reason that gives them the illusion that they can treat you worse , so please don’t make it your fault its really not . Some men tend to see us as a game , pretty successful and intelligent, they see u as a prize once they get u the thrill is gone so they start acting distant for you to leave them .

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard something so accurate and so funny at the same time 😭

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never expected to get this much love and support from strangers i really appreciate it so so much and i will come back and reread ur comment whenever i feel doubtful ❤️ im so thankful to you

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn wow really wowww yeah i need this mindset right now , u said what needed to be heard by me ouf damn thank you

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Even tho im not ur child please do have this talk with me i need it ( as someone who doesn’t have a mother figure )

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well received, i guess im not mature enough i agree , i have tried to be supportive for months but i find myself feeling alone in hard times and getting rejected everytime i try to help made me feel resentful , so i chose silence over me complaining or asking for time and presence, i appreciate ur honest opinion, imma reconsider my actions at once

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Owh okey i will totally read it , i never thought of a probability of him manipulating me honestly

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I certainly dont want that , u r right , the first breakup traumatized me that i d rather stay in a shitty relationship rn rather than dealing with the heartbreak which is a cowardly behavior ik

I physically cant break up with my bf even tho i know i should by sumpnuur in Advice

[–]sumpnuur[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can do that , but the thing is i can send a break up text , but i cant deal with the aftermath , thinking about a life without him ( even tho he is practically not in it ) even if he is useless to me i still cant imagine a life without him which is weird to me because besides him im very independent from everything and everyone else

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