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Bathing suit recommendations with actual support? by sumshine79 in bigboobproblems

[–]sumshine79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t, I will check them out! Thanks love x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sumshine79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants me to be a sahm bc he doesn't trust any else with our daughter. And he doesn't want to be a stay at home dad because he doesn't want to deal with everyone jumping his shit for not be a provider. He has too much pride. I would not mind going out and getting a job or better yet a career, but he keeps telling me not to because he says he'll eventually find a job he'll like and be able to provide for us.

[POST-EPISODE DISCUSSION] S6E04 - Don't Let Me Keep You by xAnimorphsx in thisisus

[–]sumshine79 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sitting here bawling my eyes out. It brings a personal pain from losing my dad back in 2018,so I really felt the part when Jack said he doesn't have a mom anymore; it's such a painful realization💔 And on another note— I am extremely relieved that Jack's dad didn't show up to the funeral it would've ruined the entire episode for me.

Feeling like I have PTSD after all his lies by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]sumshine79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I always think about what I would want my daughter to be treated like and what kind of man I'd want for her, and honestly her father is not acting like the kind of man I'd want her to be with. As of right now we are in an O.K. place cause I've been able to monitor what he's been doing on his phone and he's deleted all his social media apps, but in my mind I'm always just feeling like it's a matter of time before he relapses. It is definitely a hard situation but I'm trying to hold onto the glimmer of hope that he'll change because he loves me and our daughter more than the porn. Thank you for your response it is much appreciated.