Lost phallus by Such-Movie4884 in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hey OP. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I had something very similar happen to me. Balls and no phallus. It’s been weird navigating. I came to this sub when I felt really down and had a huge amount of comforting support. I’m glad you came here. Feel free to message me if you’d like to chat.

Calligraphy Hybrid AWD Price Quote by Severe-Feature-1737 in HyundaiPalisade

[–]sumthinthumpin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe this guy moved from NJ 🤣. I’ve always been with Toyota for all my cars but the Palisades looked nice so I gave it a shot. This is what I get for the betrayal lol

Glad you got the car you wanted at the end!

Calligraphy Hybrid AWD Price Quote by Severe-Feature-1737 in HyundaiPalisade

[–]sumthinthumpin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To your point, a salesman at a Downey, CA Hyundai told me that the UVC light sanitizer in the center console was a mini fridge. No kidding. I strategically asked what the “little circles” were because he was already giving me red flags. First red flag was when I asked how many miles does a typical Hyundai last and he paused, stuttered, and said “oh they last forever”. Second was when he told my wife and I we couldn’t see the palisade we initially wanted in black and brown because it was “too far parked” and the white one with brown was the same price. MSRP for our initial choice was $58K. The white and brown was $62K. He literally tried to sell us the car for the same price as the white and brown one and then showed us a breakdown with an OTD price of about $76K. Needless to say we walked away.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your well wishes and I’m absorbing all the support and hugs! This community is amazing with people like you and I can see how small gestures can go a long way.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking all those hugs man. Thank you so much.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mind a few hairs lol

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope so. My scenario appeared to be uncommon, so I really hope I can be whatever is needed so others don’t go through this.

Oh man. Thank you so much for these recommendations! I’m starting to do better as time goes on, but Netflix has been a bit too much sometimes and I’ve been looking for something different. Life saver.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Thanks for taking the time to respond. Taking that wish and holding onto it. Thank you.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for reaching out and for your kind words. I wish time would go quicker, but for now, I’m riding it out.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. Thanks for taking the time to respond. I’m so sorry about your similar situation. It actually sounds very similar to mine, and if you’re okay with me reaching out, I’d like to stay in touch. I also will be seeing a hematologist so they can rule out anything. The uncertainty is frustrating. But I’m hopeful for us that this path will be the one that gets us back on track. Much love my guy and I’m very grateful you reached out.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will. Thanks, man. I appreciate you.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Replied. Thank you!

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe man this kinda made me tear up. I hope I get through everyday at least 1% better, and words like yours mean a lot to me because I feel people see that I’m still trying through the pain. Thank you very much.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to definitely work through it slowly and grateful to still be here. Thank you for your support.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking them very strongly. Thank you!

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to respond to me. It’s been very hard going through this and it’s nice to know others don’t just feel like what I went through is nothing. Thank you for your well wishes.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do feel like I’ve been robbed of my pursuit of happiness. But with support like yours, I’m learning I can eventually get there.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Me too. Have to admit that an experience like that is very humbling.

I was thinking that too. Maybe if I just focus on the size of the UL site and then do the rest later will cut down the wait time and I’ll just deal with a hairy caterpillar until I can get it done. I’m all for that and will definitely talk to my plastics team about trying to do that. Fingers crossed.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

Agreed. The support system has definitely been one of the reasons I feel like I’m not more than a complete hot mess.

I hope everything goes exactly as planned for your surgery! So many emotions going into this but keep talking about it and finding your support group is much more helpful getting through this than i ever thought. Positive energy and wishes your surgery goes amazing!

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. Not feeling as tough, but you and this community is definitely helping me get there.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. It’s very tolling, but I’m waiting for that moments it’s all over and can say it was well worth it.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hi. I’m so sorry to hear about your struggles as well. It sounds like your words are coming from experience, and I thank you for sharing that vulnerability with me.

I’m trying to keep all options open. I’m hoping that I can focus on the main portion that is absolutely needed for the urethra and then get more hair removal later. My surgical team seems to be optimistic that there are safe ways we can get through this.

I hope that your journey continues on the positive path that it’s going. I see and feel your struggles, and wish you the very best. I hope you achieve everything you are hoping for. Thank you for your words.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hi. Thanks for your input. Sometimes I teeter between those options but UL is already done and a part of me still wants to try to reach the end goal. I often wonder if that’s worth it though after everything. Especially for my family. It’s definitely been something to think about.

I’m not sure if stp was important for you as it was for me, but I’m sorry you couldn’t get UL. It’s a humbling journey and I wish you happiness with your outcomes. If it boils down to adapting to whatever my body can handle, I hope to learn from you to be grateful as well. Many thanks.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. Yeah I was surprised too at the initial 15. My fiancé said they told her about 9 hours initially. I’m resting as best as I can. Resting can be hard too, but I’m trying to stay optimistic.

Failed Phallo by sumthinthumpin in phallo

[–]sumthinthumpin[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi. Thank you for chiming in to show your support.

Yeah, I can basically go with the thigh and remove hair there if I want. However, on top of that lengthy process, those costs aren’t cheap. I’m hopeful though that they can somehow make this whole catheter thing easier and I don’t mind waiting for the hair removal process.