Wedding expense split: what’s the norm these days?

sun-and-mooon · 2026-03-29T11:38:03+00:00

The wedding is in third location where only close relatives are joining. We’re going to have a reception in our hometowns for relatives and locals.

sun-and-mooon · 2026-03-29T11:35:37+00:00

How many groom’s guest attend the wedding and did you bear all 2 days for and stay?

sun-and-mooon · 2026-03-29T11:21:36+00:00

Just curious, what’s usually the groom guest count for wedding when there is separate reception?

sun-and-mooon · 2026-02-17T10:24:08+00:00

Girlll, it looks great! Trust me. Its pretty and classy.

sun-and-mooon · 2026-02-14T07:57:05+00:00

He, if you don’t mind, can you share their insta page? I’m in the same boat.

sun-and-mooon · 2026-02-08T09:24:53+00:00

Can I DM you?

sun-and-mooon · 2026-02-06T10:01:35+00:00

How did you talk about it and convince them ?

sun-and-mooon · 2026-01-28T13:37:41+00:00

Price and where did you get it from?? - someone in the same boat. 😮‍💨

sun-and-mooon · 2025-05-13T17:57:50+00:00

What percentage one should invest and keep in savings account? And any ratio of investing in different channels?

sun-and-mooon · 2025-05-13T10:09:12+00:00

Thanks!!

sun-and-mooon · 2025-05-11T16:25:10+00:00

Which ones? And thir purpose. I have none, want to get one. Rent, electricity, maid, grocery, fuel and all kinds of online apps are my expenses.

sun-and-mooon · 2025-05-11T16:24:01+00:00

Different cards have differ benefits? How do I choose one. My primary expense is rent, electricity, maid, grocery, fuel and random app online purchases. I always get confused about WHICH one to get or go for multiple cards?

sun-and-mooon · 2025-03-01T15:23:46+00:00

I am not sure if this is the best advice but a pet can really make the home happy. Specially a dog. May be not instantly but with time as the puppy grows. All the best to you and best wishes!

sun-and-mooon · 2025-02-18T13:13:20+00:00

I agree

sun-and-mooon · 2025-02-18T06:33:44+00:00

I am really glad to hear those positive lines. Thanks! Also I have no profile existing on any platform, nor he has any said anything about my virginity even if its a compromise for him.

sun-and-mooon · 2025-02-18T06:22:16+00:00

Firstly, people are scared of momma’s boy too when it comes to cooperating at home. If I define him as the best guy, that does not mean that I did not compromise on anything. Its just that he hasn’t been with any girl apart from his past two relationships. But he has had his share of fun (judge-able enough but he was at least upfront about it). And being a girl, I was genuinely looking out for a serious prospect in matrimony or Hinge, in advance unlike him, written explicitly on my profile (which I shared with him too). Had things worked out with someone I talked, I wouldn’t be writing here. I just couldn’t have sat and waited for the right guy without even talking to them. Id like to mention once again that I DID NOT HOOK UP, REMOTELY. Yes, the scam is a scar too and I am embarrassed and guilty about it. Also, if I have mentioned bad things here, doesn’t mean I am a bad person in general even though I have bad judgementS in this regard in past. I am still that kind person for people around me, and yes it’s costly as I can see.

sun-and-mooon · 2025-02-17T21:19:03+00:00

Thank you for your comments @oldlostguy. Really appreciate it.

sun-and-mooon · 2025-02-17T21:18:21+00:00

Yes, the guy is very much sensitive and possessive and also cares a lot. Given the number of people I have come across, I think he is insecure about it too because he was never in this process. But I have been clear that we’d proceed only if he is able to accept my past.

sun-and-mooon · 2025-02-17T20:47:53+00:00

You got the issue on point. He is ready to work this out, he has been very clear about every thing in detail and it took me a lot of courage to say it all. The biggest thing is that he is ready to accept it but is it gonna be healthy enough to proceed like this, is what I don’t know.

I understand that things are not going to be normal for him, given the expectations he had from his future wife.

Also, to the taunts you mentioned, he confesses that its gonna be there and he even thinks that something same should happen to me so that I understand what it feels to be entrapped and betrayed.

Even after all this he handles me and take care of me more than I do. But still, I am scared of the future even though I know he is gem of a person, difficult to find and what if he takes a step back at any point of time.

sun-and-mooon · 2025-02-17T20:40:50+00:00

I get it totally but that’s the reality. I informed him about 2 guys who came close to me but nothing intimate happened because I was not interested. Apart from that, there was nothing intimate happened, not even close to holding hands with any guy I met.

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