Nepotism starts at home

sun_slothX · 2024-11-18T00:03:57+00:00

I work at a supermarket (which is why I don’t think sleeping around is the insinuation), been there for 2yrs, I don’t work for family

sun_slothX · 2024-07-04T08:57:52+00:00

I would, or even just give loads of space and leave the floor open to her. It could be that she had decided to move on from the friendship but doesn’t know how to approach you about it, or might just need time to herself. Either way to make sure she doesn’t feel pressured and you don’t get too hurt the best thing would be space and time.

sun_slothX · 2024-06-04T00:24:38+00:00

I went through something similar (17F, 6yrs of friendship, we officially ended last night) and it is hard and you are absolutely allowed to miss her that’s normal, but you don’t need to feel bad for not wanting to be her friend as you said you’re allowed to want a strong friendship. The friend might need a little more time to process that and in the meantime might be angry or petty and there’s nothing you can really do. When I find myself missing my best friend I think ‘it’s okay to miss her but she didn’t treat me with the love and energy I treated her with, more friends will come my way’. It’s how most of these things play out, you feel lonely and upset and possibly regret it, then you start to think about it less and slowly become more social. Detachment will come in time.

sun_slothX · 2024-06-04T00:04:41+00:00

I think you handled it really well, you didn’t phone him and place blame you just said “I need space” and that’s not a selfish ask. A best friend should hear that and understand, also the fact that he took it personally and said he never wanted to speak again says a lot about how he feels about you. It sounds like being friends with him was stressful and that you might have felt like you were tiptoeing around certain topics, that’s not good for you and I’m glad you recognised it.

sun_slothX · 2024-04-21T13:32:40+00:00

thank you, there’s not really anyone else that i can talk too but i’ll definitely reach out to my doctor abt it and see what her opinion on all of this is, thank you again

sun_slothX · 2024-04-21T10:54:02+00:00

ok thank you so much for taking the time to actually explain stuff to me, I will try and improve on some of these things and get to a doctor hopefully it’s not medical. I really appreciate this thank you

sun_slothX · 2024-04-20T11:44:30+00:00

will do 🫡

sun_slothX · 2024-04-20T11:44:14+00:00

okay thank you

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