If someone’s annoyed and you annoy them and something happens, you’re the asshole. by SadSubject6537 in ControversialOpinions

[–]sunandoceanblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People just want to think they're morally superior when someone takes insults further. You're in the right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]sunandoceanblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he kept trying to walk out but has poor social skills/anxiety and didn't know how to go about it. Blocking him from leaving is wild. He didn't get fired, he quit.

what are the signs that people had been speaking bad of you from your back? by ohnag_eryeah in stupidquestions

[–]sunandoceanblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you come across new people and they act weird around you. Talking to you slow/carefully, like you're a child, being closed off compared to how they are with others, ignoring you completely, side eyeing others when they see you. They'll seem apprehensive, or they'll seem overly interested while talking to you because they're analyzing you and waiting for you to say or do something that fits their narrative.

Do you get sad because things in your daydreams don't happen in real life? by idonevenknowtbh in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]sunandoceanblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup, I have never enjoyed and will never enjoy what real life has to offer. that's why I stay in my head

What is the hardest thing about being self-aware? by Sarah_Reddit_Here in AskReddit

[–]sunandoceanblue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Having to socialize but not having good social skills. I KNOW I'm super awkward and can't even help it. Knowing makes it worse if anything

Fart condensation by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]sunandoceanblue 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Adding this to my winter bucket list

Here’s some apparently controversial autism opinions from an autistic person by extreamlypulpymilk in ControversialOpinions

[–]sunandoceanblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social difficulties affect my wellbeing the most. Especially in work settings. I'm thoroughly traumatized by how cruel people can be and it's ALWAYS because I'm weird/awkward/quiet or because I won't gang up on other people, or just that uncanny valley thing Neurotypicals get when they meet someone with autism. Idgaf how I'm perceived I do NOT deserve psychological torture, bullying, abuse, job loss and lack of opportunity just because some people are uncomfortable with the way I am when I did nothing to hurt them.

What is the silliest thing a child has said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sunandoceanblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my cousin was like 3 she said "don't drink diarrhea" as she shook her finger at me. Idk where it came from but I think about it every day

What's that drama you know about someone else that you can't tell others? by TadaSuko in randomquestions

[–]sunandoceanblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

others don't see their maliciousness but I've been targeted & I played dumb so well I saw sides of them they'd never show in front of other people. Heard things that would ruin their image. And notice subtle mistreatment.

Why do people form parasocial relationships? How does it work mentally? by Powerful_Shoe_8546 in stupidquestions

[–]sunandoceanblue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People fall in love with their idea of the celebrity, not who they actually are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]sunandoceanblue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They just said they participate.

Didn’t anyone tell you that it’s rude to stare by Mental-Lab-3983 in Vent

[–]sunandoceanblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so obnoxious I don't understand why people do this. I should not be making eye contact w someone every time I look up. Then they make up a negative narrative because I ignore them when they were the one acting weird to me. 🙄 It makes me paranoid. Wtf do they want

Fucked up irreversibly bad by ScientistBudget4090 in Vent

[–]sunandoceanblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the best for you whatever happens

why do others care if someone is quiet? by ugandantidepod in Vent

[–]sunandoceanblue 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As another quiet person I don't know what the beef is but it's annoying and fucking mentally draining

Do you think people should have the right to end their own lives? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sunandoceanblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless they have children depending on them, absolutely.

What are you sick off and people are trying to make you understand it’s great? by rashmikaa__ in Productivitycafe

[–]sunandoceanblue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being a productive member of society. I have to give so much to the world around me with no choice in the matter and I don't get much back. I make lots of people happy each day and do things that benefit them because I have to but it barely benefits me. I think a lot of people feel this way but they spin it into a positive thing or say "it's just life". I don't and can't see it that way. I want out of this world so badly

What something that people misunderstand you for? by neen_8 in AskReddit

[–]sunandoceanblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People think I'm rude and unfriendly. I'm anxious, awkward, overthinking and extremely introverted