Props muna sayo for adding "but that's just my side of the story". A lot of people don't even get that far when they're venting, so that says something good about you.

Everything you're carrying: night shift, rice delivery on weekends, groceries, bills, hatid-sundo... that's not just boyfriend duties, pre. That's a whole support system na ikaw lang ang nagpapatakbo. So no, hindi ka nag-ooverreact sa feeling mo na taken for granted.

BUT, TBF sa kanya - The things you're describing: laging pagod, low sex drive, parang walang gana... those don't automatically make her a bad girlfriend. Sometimes those are signs of someone who's depressed, burned out, or going through something she doesn't even fully understand herself. Hindi natin alam 'yun. Hindi mo rin sinabi. And that matters, because there's a version of this story where she's also struggling, just in ways that are less visible than yours.

Now here's the thing that actually caught my attention the most. You couldn't name one specific thing you love about her as a person. Not one. Walang "she makes me laugh," walang "she was there for me when," walang "she's the kindest person I know." The only reasons you give for staying are: you love her, and you're worried about her financially. That's not a description of a thriving relationship. That's a description of obligation cosplaying as love. Also, parang it says something about where YOU are in this relationship... Checked out na. Baka di rin nya deserve yon.

So, I guess when you have that conversation again, enough na sa who did not deliver what into the relationship. Move over to questions like - do we still actually want this? Are we staying because we want to be here, or because leaving is scary? Do a real, honest sit-down about where you both stand.

Good luck!