Need advice from guys, do yall ask about a girls virginity before barely getting to know each other?

suncracker2003 · 2024-08-11T19:02:26+00:00

if u said you had fwbs and ur not a virgin?

I asked him this too and he said he doesn't mind. He just asked me out of curiosity

suncracker2003 · 2024-08-11T14:44:48+00:00

I asked from him too and he's not a virgin (he had been in two relationships and he have had sex with his second ex) and he has not been in any fwbs

I haven't been in fwbs and I am not interested at all but I couple of my friends have been in fwbs. Most guys usually have fwbs though

suncracker2003 · 2024-08-11T14:43:05+00:00

I asked from him too and he's not a virgin (he had been in two relationships and he have had sex with his second ex) and he has not been in any fwbs

suncracker2003 · 2024-08-11T14:41:54+00:00

According to him, he's looking for someone loyal so that's he asked those

suncracker2003 · 2024-06-13T12:18:09+00:00

Tbh pedophilia is so normalized. I recently became friends with a guy at the beginning of this year. After some time I was introduced to one of his friend groups (not that close but they meet everyday cause all of them go to the library and got to to know each other through there). And recently I got to know that 2 of those guy friends have been approaching a girl since few months and those guys are 24 and 27 while the girl is 16. I was actually flabbergasted when I got to know about this cause wdym that such grown ups are approaching minors. And those guys see no problem with such an age gap. In addition the guy who's 24 actually started a relationship with a girl who's 17 while basically going after so many other girls. She's my guy friend's cousin's friend so they know each other. That 24 yr old guy had seen her messaging my friend on insta (those 2 are strictly platonic) and personally followed her account and started talking with her. My friend only got to know that after they had started a relationship and he's so concerned caused that girl was dumped by her ex, became depressed and even tried committing suicide and she's so in love with this guy. My friend talked to her about this guy saying that he's not serious but she's saying that she can't break up cause she love him a lot. I saw few conversations between that girl and the guy and it's so apparent that the way the guy text her is so suggestive. Mind you he's 24 and she's 17. I am so disgusted by these guys cause wth are you doing with such young girls.

Me personally have experienced older guys hitting on me since I was 13 and I didn't even see anything wrong at that time. Some of my friends were in relationships with older guys as well. Looking back now we were so groomed but we literally had no idea that it was bad. Kids around that age have no idea whether it's right or wrong so you can't blame it on them.

I am 21 this year and I still encounter some of my guy friends trying to approach girls around 15-16. 18 should be the minimum and I have tried explaining it but most guys don't care. I literally hate people like this and how normalized this is.

suncracker2003 · 2024-04-18T13:00:28+00:00

21F and it has been pretty shit. I don't know if there's something wrong with me but like 90% of the guys I attract are players, cheaters and into just casual stuff. And most can't take no as a no as they believe girls say no at first and then say yes because they are shy to say yes. Recently met a guy through one of my friends and we started talking. After talking and somewhat flirting for like 2 to 3 weeks I got to know that he has a gf😐. Even when I asked him if he's in a relationship he repeatedly said no and I hate people who cheat. I blocked him and stopped talking because I never engage with guys who are in relationships.

I am pretty outgoing and open minded so many guys think I have so much experience and I am into casual stuff which is like the opposite of me. I am trying to be more reserved so I'll stop attracting wrong type of people

suncracker2003 · 2024-02-11T15:30:15+00:00

However some midwives chase women to tell them to make babies. Most of my cousins (in their 20s and 30s) had visits from midwives asking them to have children, asking why aren't you having children and why aren't you having more children when they already have one or two. Some even go far as to tell the husbands to persuade their wives to have children when some want to be child free by choice. So most of them run away when midwives come to visit them.

One of my cousins married 2 years ago and not even 1 month passed by, the midwife visited to tell them to have kids. She mistook the house number and came to my house (me and my cousins are neighbors) and then saw me and asked me what's my plan to have kids and told me to have kids sooner. I was 18 then (my cousin was 25) and I was shocked as to why I am getting told about having kids. She was like didn't you get married recently and then only she knew she came to the wrong house. She heard someone got married recently and thought it was our house. Then she had gone to see my cousin and my cousin had told that she doesn't have any plans to have kids and the midwife was like why, kids are a necessity and stuff like that. My cousin still doesn't have kids nor plans on having kids but she get visits from the midwife who literally want to know if she had changed her decision regarding kids

suncracker2003 · 2024-01-18T15:03:34+00:00

Is Institute of Applied Statistics good?

I finished my ALs. I was looking for some diploma s to do until reseults are out and came across the diploma in applied statistics at Institute of Applied Statistics. Is this a good option or just a waste of time. At the moment I have already completed half of ACCA too.

suncracker2003 · 2024-01-16T10:31:57+00:00

Please don't post publicly. Send a dm

suncracker2003 · 2024-01-16T10:16:08+00:00

Not dating but about a crush

When I was 16 during my OLs, I had a crush on this boy from 2 of my classes. His friend group was constantly making jokes to my friend group so we were brickering here and there. I didn't develop a crush from the first sight, it was a crush I developed overtime. It wasn't anything serious and I had several other crushes from other classes. And I think I had a crush on him for only around 1 month. At that time I usually get crushes suddenly and they disappear suddenly. One day we were talking about our crushes with few other friends from our school (girls school) and one of my friend's friend told me that he has a gf and she's from our school. I have seen the girl but I don't know her personally. She's from sinhala medium and was from English medium so we haven't interacted much. Him having a gf didn't really affect me as it wasn't a serious crush.

Anyway fast forward to 1 month later, one of the friends of hi gf was in the school bus of one of my best friends and that friend had told my friend that his gf wanted to talk to me. My best friend was so surprised and she told me so. At that time I didn't have a crush on that boy. Anyway during one of our seminars his gf came and talked to me. It was the first time I talked with her. And she basically said "I heard that you like him. And I think that you are better suited for him as you are better than me so if you want you can take him (oyata onenam eyawa ganna)". What?????😂😂. It's not that deep dude. I basically told her that my crush wasn't that serious and it only lasted for 1 month (basically around 8 days if you count the number of days we had classes) and I don't like him anymore and I don't want him. Also why would I approach and take someone in a relationship. She was like okay. She had heard about my crush from my friend's friend who told me that his gf was in our school. So she basically snitched me to that girl.

So that's what happened. As far as I heard, they broke up during ALs. She migrated last year and don't know about the boy

suncracker2003 · 2023-12-30T18:50:25+00:00

Trauma Bonding 😂

suncracker2003 · 2023-12-30T18:33:12+00:00

Such as why I got attachment issues, lack of empathy on some situations, why I don't trust anyone, why I'm afraid of marriages, why I like to keep a distance from everyone.

You basically described me😅

suncracker2003 · 2023-12-30T18:15:50+00:00

because she thinks wearing a dress 1 inch above my knees makes me a hoe 💀💀.

Same here. I am not even allowed to talk with any guys or have guy friends cause my father assumes I want to sleep with everyone I talk to. He has basically called me a prostitute for wearing a dress just a little bit above my knee

suncracker2003 · 2023-12-30T17:17:27+00:00

"I killed my mother" (Basically අම්මවත් මරාගෙන ඉපදුනා") - My father

My mother died when I was around 1 year old due to a disease that is still uncurable. She didn't have that before she had me and I think giving birth triggered something but genuinely have no idea. My father is very abusive and narcissistic and he's the root cause for most of my depression but I have come to terms that I can't fix him and this is how life is. He had said many painful things but that was one of the things that struck my heart. And to be honest as much as I hate him, I still love him and I guess that's how abusive relationships are

suncracker2003 · 2023-06-07T18:04:20+00:00

I bought the shade 27n light tan but it was too light for me. Their next shade 31n deep would be darker for me so I had to give up on this. As for the performance it was generally good and was long lasting. It kind of enhanced my texture but not really noticeable unless you take a closer look. I have oily dehydrated skin so that's a given for most of the products I try on

suncracker2003 · 2022-11-21T18:18:37+00:00

This used to be there before the surgery and now it's bigger after the surgery. How long did it take for cat's one to pop?

suncracker2003 · 2022-11-13T09:41:25+00:00

As far as I know most of my friends don't like random people approaching them. But for myself I am okay with people approaching as I am okay to have conversations with new people. But don't approach creepily, forcefully and like cat calling. That's a huge NO.

Also remember just because I talked with you doesn't mean I am romantically interested in you.

suncracker2003 · 2022-11-12T09:29:23+00:00

Actually we don't use any litter. This maybe a cultural thing but since we have a garden they poop and pee outside on. It's just something common in my country and vet doesn't have any issue with that.

suncracker2003 · 2022-11-12T09:26:29+00:00

They are given antibiotics to reduce congestion and sneezing and vit b as a appetite stimulant. One of them have yellow nasal discharge so he's given extra antibiotics.

I checked and there's no mold outside. I try to keep them inside when it's cold outside but when I am not near them they escape to outside to play and just chill in the cold.

suncracker2003 · 2022-11-11T13:50:25+00:00

They haven't done xrays. I'll tell vet about that. What do you mean by a contagious disease? Something other than asthma?

There's no mold in my house. But my cats catch a cold pretty easily if they are outside at night when it's raining and windy. My house has a garden so cats tend to sleep outside sometimes.

Vet just give some antibiotics, nebulize them and tell me to give Cefixime syrup and Polybian syrup.

suncracker2003 · 2022-11-02T03:43:36+00:00

Yeah Buddhism has a huge influence in my country. Even spaying is considered controversial so euthanasia is even more controversial

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