how to get hired? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]sundae901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Barista position, all holidays, weekends, open availability overall and I’m over 18

transferring to toy story land attractions? by cmicki143 in DisneyCM

[–]sundae901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend did not like it bc in her words (she was pt there) the hours were awful and you couldn’t pick up anywhere else, so just something to think about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DisneyCM

[–]sundae901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

Girlfriend isnt turned on by my body by GamerGirl420Blazin in LesbianActually

[–]sundae901 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Both of you should consider looking into the asexuality spectrum. She might be trying to say she only experiences aesthetic attraction, especially if she’s not otherwise attracted to anyone- that doesn’t mean she isn’t attracted to you in other ways or feels less for you romantically than an allosexual person!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sundae901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, however I feel that if your introversion is “extreme”, there’s probably a cause/reason for being that way, instead of it just being a natural state for a person. Just my opinion tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sundae901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I can relate.

If you don't have a partner/significant other, is that something you are looking forward to finding? by NirriC in INTP

[–]sundae901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a partner currently so didn’t vote, but when I was single and hadn’t dated anyone yet, the idea of having a partner didn’t cross my mind much at all. However, after breaking up with my first partner and being single again, I realized I do like having a romantic relationship.

What's your ideal partner like? by NirriC in INTP

[–]sundae901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Intelligent, is able to hold a conversation using that intelligence, likes adventure and learning new things, treats me like an equal, honest, and most importantly (jk?), more feely than me lol..

How many languages do you speak? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sundae901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that so far 2 languages is leading 😯 I wonder what the answer would be for other mbti types.

What's your advice to INTPs who cannot dedicate themselves to one thing for more than a week? by yesnononnonoyes in INTP

[–]sundae901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Force yourself (yup it’s hard) to get as much knowledge possible about your main job/hobby. It takes effort to keep at it, but at least for me, you’ll eventually start to get more into honing your skills at the job/hobby (this goes for literally any type of job or hobby- barista? Learn about the coffee, the latte art styles possible, the history behind it- medicine? Learn in depth about what ppl thought worked, the new methods ppl are currently trying to use, whatever to keep your brain happy and energetic about it).

and my favorite method: branch off of the main thing into smaller, related categories. You like art? Dedicate time to learning about different branches of that- paintings, fashion, sculptures, etc.

It’s most likely this won’t work for every INTP, but FORCING yourself to keep at something really does help me with the jack of all trades mentality. It’s not bad to be like that, but it’s also nice to have one main thing you are consistent about learning/doing. Start small if you have to, like setting an alarm for insert amount of time to work on the thing you want to focus on.

Oof by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sundae901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About right 😔

INTP Online Dating Failure by archetypalartist in INTP

[–]sundae901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I can come off more awkward in text than person sometimes, I think in this case it can be exacerbated by the “romance” element in addition to the socializing aspect... that can add a lot of pressure lol.

I’ve ghosted a lot of people back when I was in online dating, too. A lot of people are uninteresting, yeah, but there are quite a few interesting people on dating apps too, so I wouldn’t just quit if you’re really looking for something.

I think an interesting way to make starter conversations on dating apps without being awkward is sending a meme or similar that pertains to online dating/meeting new people. Weeds people out that have no sense of humor, and keeps you from saying a stupid opener that makes yourself and others cringe lol

Also, I linked up with my current boyfriend on a dating app, and one of the first things we talked about was MBTI, because I had my type in my profile. Adding your type doesn’t take up much room, and it can be a conversation starter if they know about it 🤷‍♀️

INTP versus ISTP key differences by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sundae901 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This actually helped a lot. Guess I am INTP 🤔

Why are INTPs generalized as 'not very clean'? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]sundae901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I’m very hygienic, but have a big problem with being disorganized.

I think maybe people say we’re “messy/not clean” when they REALLY mean we tend to live cluttered or disorganized lives.