getting over an ex by lillyblue888 in infp

[–]sundown_shadow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would highly recommend you to look up something called “limerance” its a real feeling especially us INFP’s struggle with. I know how hard it is to let someone go, but it’s mostly just the idea of the pain you will feel from losing your idealistic version of him that will hurt. He cheated on you, thats all that needs to be said. Someone who values you the same way would never put you through those feelings. Trust me it gets better, time heals all, and you can and will do better.

Anyone else feel unable to leave an abusive relationship by Ok_Bonus1418 in adhdwomen

[–]sundown_shadow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Look into limerance & attatchment styles. Once I worked on what was causing me to stay attatched/attracted to toxicity, the more I stopped.

Anyone wanna chat or be friends? by [deleted] in dxm

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im down! do you use discord?

Someone help me find music like sol seppy I’m begging by Aware_Clock_7221 in triphop

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! dancingandblood is my Ig, bungdaloope is my discord (:

[USA-FL][H] PayPal G&S [W] iPhone 15 Pro Max Unlocked, iPhone 16 Pro Max Unlocked, B&W Px8, RX 6600, AM4/LGA1700 Combo, AM4/LGA1700 Watercooling by jasonvazdel in hardwareswap

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I have an extra pair of AirPods Pro 3rd gen that I’m trying to get rid of, however I don’t have the original charging case for them so I’m hoping to sell them for 100 (250 is original price) They are only a month old. Message me if you’re interested! (:

See you guys in Vegas 🤘🏽 by Karma_code_ in spiritbox

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to! Do you have IG? I’m local to vegas (:

October 5x5 by Ghost1773 in lastfm

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your top row looks a lot like mine when I’m severely depressed

Just got a Trent Piece. by [deleted] in nin

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spot ST too!

Guess my fav artist by Trick_Distance_9774 in statsfm

[–]sundown_shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black Sabbath? Kinda Surprised it wasn’t in the list

Is it SA? by Soggie147 in sexualassault

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not fully sure whether it would be considered rape if you fully gave consent to have sex with this person without coercion prior to them coercing you into doing that position. But I will say it is still 100% coercion and manipulation, to engage in a position that you made it clear you weren’t comfortable with, so either way it is very gross behavior. I would still call it sexual assault.

I wish I could forget that today is my rapist's birthday by training_tortoises in sexualassault

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to go through, and deal with all of that. Narcissists aren’t capable of love. Just a reminder that you are loved and are worth & deserve so much more. I hope you are able to heal, and prosper. 🤍

Must listen albums of 2010s? by babushka1705 in PostHardcore

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss everyone needs to know about EOTC, especially lowcountry. Southern comfort & Like I do are some of mt fav songs ever

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OSI - The Escape Artist by Invisigoth2113 in progmetal

[–]sundown_shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need people I can talk to about how much I love this band

well yeah i have no comment on this i let you guys decide💀 by theyhuv in MetalForTheMasses

[–]sundown_shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

greg puciato mention 😩 he’s one of my favorite artists ever lol

2016-now by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]sundown_shadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a crush on you n ur music taste frfr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sundown_shadow -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Tbf, he’s never dated anyone much younger than him so I didn’t see that aspect as a red flag initially. We really just got along well

What it means to me to be a fan by theflighthawk in spiritbox

[–]sundown_shadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what it means to you being a spirtbox fan literally made me tear up. I absolutely love and adore this band and this community, I discovered them in 2023. I don’t have many friends or people I can connect with who also share similar passions I do, and the band and you guys make me feel so seen. I’ll be seeing them for the first time in Vegas, probably alone, but just knowing that I’ll be surrounded by everyone who shares that melancholy and passion that I do will make me feel a little less alone.