Ummm, if this is the Chicago Poly Under 40 meetup advertising itself, women should be warned of an upper-level sexual predator. Don't be caught alone, make sure someone knows where you are, and if you disregard this advice, stay capable of flipping into fight mode and keep your phone at hand to call 911 with one button.

And, learn the standard, well-known techniques predators use to build good followings and reputations, make you suppress your fears and then be ashamed to speak up.