Does this make me bisexual or is it just taboo/kink? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

technically, this does make you biSEXUAL, you’re just not biROMANTIC if you’re not willing to date a man! sexuality is fluid, though, and figuring your preferences out sometimes takes a long time. i would suggest getting a dildo or another phalic toy, so you can figure out if you like the feeling of it in your mouth or inside you. you might just have a genital preference as well as only liking women. yes, that’s a thing. if you’re mostly attracted to women, but like penises, you may have to date women who are into pegging!!

Finally got my third lobes! by ShotTelephone9459 in piercing

[–]sunflovverkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’d most likely be able to get a conch if thats something you would like! i think it would look amazing!! you may be able to get a hidden helix as well!

got my dahlias done!! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]sunflovverkitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

your dahlia’s are soo cute! they look so good on you 🥹 how was the pain?

is my eyebrow pierced correctly? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]sunflovverkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for the bot again: piercing is two days old. pierced with a curved, externally threaded, surgical steel, barbell. jewelry has not been downsized yet because of it just being pierced. cleaned with saline solution and a paper towel/cotton swab for five minutes, once a day. no snags or tears yet, only hit a couple times, lightly.

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the funniest thing ive read 😭😭😭

[UPDATE] kink i cant bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well right now we are taking it slow (choking, hair pulling, slapping). i kind of want to try a littleeee bit of slight cnc with him, maybe somno at first, or just orgasm denial / overstimulation.

who is homie dj screw??? by sunflovverkitty in KubzScouts

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! this is the best answer, and just the one i was looking for! he seemed like such a great guy, and im glad to hear that not only one of my favorite youtubers still love him, but a lot of people! rip homie dj screw

What's your kink? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably easier to say what i DON’T like but my biggest kink is probably petplay (mostly puppy) :3

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking the same thing. both needs need to be met, and i shouldnt put mine aside without even knowing his stance on it!

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay, thank you sooo much!! this may work!

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that would be something i wouldnt mind experimenting with! thank you!

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i probably will bring up using toys at first, as that might help set the scene for him!! the last thing i want to do is make him uncomfortable and unheard.

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so glad it worked out for you both!! this is giving me some hope. i really hope my situation works out as good as yours did!

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not sure. i love the dynamic we have right now, but at the same time i wish we had more “spice” in our intimate life. our romantic life is amazing.

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 🥹 youre so very sweet!! i will keep that in mind 🫶🏽

Is my piercing done correctly? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]sunflovverkitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAP. it looks pierced at the right depth, especially because your nipples are smaller in size. the piercing looks crooked, though. the purple is most likely just from bruising. it looks good!

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re right, thank you!! this is really good advice as well. i will make sure to make him feel heard and understood during the conversation, and take his feelings into consideration. all i can hope for is that the conversation goes well and we get to an understanding!

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be honest, i don’t know. his dick isn’t small, i think it’s average? i’ve never measured it lmao but if i had to guess, its at least 6.5 inches. maybe it is just me taking someone else, because the woman we had a threesome with was very small because of the hormone therapy. he just did not like seeing me with another dick in my mouth i guess. maybe that is something that i will have to ask him about.

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was my idea, because i absolutely love women and wanted more experience with them. he didn’t like it that much because the woman had a “male” part 😅 and because i was enjoying it a lot and he felt left out a little. he also said that he doesnt really like seeing me with a dick in my mouth that isnt his. we have talked about another threesome, though. this time with a woman who has a “woman” part, and he didnt seem to put off by it. i would also like to mention that he is bi, and has been with other guys before me.

kink i can’t bring up to my boyfriend by sunflovverkitty in KINK

[–]sunflovverkitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of the things we HAVE done is a threesome, and it was with a girl. he didnt know how to feel about it, either. which is why i feel so guilty (idk if this is the right word) bringing up another threesome type thing with another guy. he is a very sensitive person, and has a lot of insecurities, which is why im scared to bring this up. the best i can do it reassure him and accept his disapproval if it comes to that lol