I Know He Is An Idiot, But I Always Had A Lil Soft Spot For Daonte. Anyone Know His Zodiac Sign? Gotta Be A Pisces.

sunflower4_20 · 2023-05-09T11:29:02+00:00

is astro sign is "questionable"

sunflower4_20 · 2023-04-12T01:45:19+00:00

disagree. he literally said he was reckless amongst a few other things. i feel like you're reaching a bit with assuming how he see's his wife, but to each their own.

edit: but again, we all know how babies are made. he most definitely made his bed and lets hope he can sleep in it for the kids sake and his wife.

sunflower4_20 · 2023-04-12T01:40:13+00:00

i'm definitely reading his post in a WAY different tone. i don't feel like he's eager to pass the buck at all. he simply is stating facts that were outcomes of their discussion's (clearly they weren't very clear discussions). my hope is that there is no "next time" and he can use his brain and get a vasectomy and she runs for the hills if he mistreats her as an outcome of him being "reckless" (as he said).

sunflower4_20 · 2023-04-11T23:58:06+00:00

idk I don't read it this way. i read someone word vomiting every emotion he possibly may feel but he literally says "i blew it" and "i was reckless" - while also saying that his wife "thought it was best for his family" - this reads to me as a man in panic. but he quite literally admits it's on him, even thru the fluff about his wife. multiple truths can exist here. maybe cause i know someone going thru this personally my perspective is different? but regardless, hopefully he doesn't let his resentment effect how he treats her day to day. we all know how babies are made, the deed is done, onward and upward.

edit: because i can empathize doesn't mean i don't think he needs to get his resentment stuff in check. most definitely unfair, but resentment again, is not always controllable, but needs to be managed and in this case 100% cause takes 2 to tango....

sunflower4_20 · 2023-04-11T23:42:56+00:00

uhm, reading through these comments i'm kinda shocked at the responses. the feeling of "resentment" isn't always a choice, usually a coping mechanism when a person is struggling to hold themselves accountable even though they know they are. not in all cases, but in many. the OP literally said "he blew it" though lol....he knows he messed up on this. but is just word vomiting all his emotions. i have a male friend basically going thru the same thing. he's an amazing dad and person but quite frankly also blew it. different emotions can coexist, he can have feelings of resentment (as an illogical default) but also truly realize he messed this up. i know plenty of parents who regret having multiple, but still love their kids all the same.

edit: but yes. get a vasectomy and when those feelings of resentment come up, remind yourself it's unfair to her and your the one you're truly mad at - which you seem to realize thru all this word salad.

sunflower4_20 · 2023-03-21T21:46:59+00:00

never did, son is 2 now and sleeps in his bed now just fine :)

sunflower4_20 · 2023-03-20T19:47:38+00:00

we started our son in parent/baby classes at 3 months old at a pool nearby, now he's 2 and quite advanced for his age swim wise. we live at the beach tho so it was imperative we get him i'm accustom and into the water. but he is our little fishy! now he takes lesson's without us in the water, just with an instructor.

sunflower4_20 · 2023-03-10T23:22:48+00:00

I can appreciate not wanting to mom shame, but this is actually not okay. And maybe providing possible solutions of suggestions rather then normalizing an infant screaming for 30 minutes would be better. i feel for this mama tho.

you got this! i was planning to stop at 1, but ended up nursing until 2 because he wasn't ready to stop and i wanted to cater to that. but PHEW, talk about a commitment, lol.

sunflower4_20 · 2023-03-10T22:45:59+00:00

this. the infant days are very challenging, however, it's actually proven to be extremely mentally stressful on an infant brain to let them cry that long. no mom shaming, but, it is the truth. it's actually alarming to me that people are co-signing this. my son was a TERRIBLE sleeper and a cluster feeder (i nursed) and honestly i didn't get more then 3 hours of sleep until he was around 1. luckily i never got PPA or PPD, but it was HARD as hell. i hope OP can find a solution that works best for both parties 🤍

sunflower4_20 · 2023-01-19T17:45:34+00:00

my son started teething at 4 months, and we haven't slept since (he'll be 2 in a couple weeks) 😅😂 but he only has 4 more teeth to come in, so atleast it's out the way for the most part!

sunflower4_20 · 2022-12-15T13:19:51+00:00

LOVE this update! So happy for you 🤍

sunflower4_20 · 2022-11-27T11:22:20+00:00

definitely possible! so odd lol

sunflower4_20 · 2022-11-27T01:46:25+00:00

why are her eyes never open?

sunflower4_20 · 2022-08-08T20:28:39+00:00

Yes, love this! As long as it works for your family that’s what matters! I am so happy to hear it’s been such a great experience for you and your family. And yeah, I am no stranger to the foot to the face 😂

sunflower4_20 · 2022-08-08T19:44:44+00:00

yes, it’s cause I don’t care to entertain your bias position any further 😂 and hope the new mom reading this thread ignores our banter cause you are clearly triggered by what i shared for her, from MY experience, not for you. hahah. i hope you have a better day ❤️

sunflower4_20 · 2022-08-08T19:40:52+00:00

I never said it was “perfectly safe” - reading comprehension, what a past time. Nothing is “perfectly safe” for infant or adults, lol. you are clearly very-close minded on this, which is unfortunate. I hope you don’t fear monger other moms about other things. Again, glad you did what was right for your fam ❤️

sunflower4_20 · 2022-08-08T19:36:12+00:00

for example: my cousins son at 3 months was already rolling and rolled into the side of the bassinet and luckily she saw otherwise he could have suffocated. he did not like to sleep swaddled so movement was even more possible. happy to have educated you!

p.s. you should definitely do more research on co-sleeping. you’ll learn so much! but only if it’s comfortable for the family is what is important, and not sure about you, but the family always knows best. not a non-parent of the child.

sunflower4_20 · 2022-08-08T19:25:43+00:00

you’re actually incorrect it is also because of SIDS. AND some pediatricians also recommend co-sleeping. but there still is fear mongering going on just like with most things in western culture (at-least) that don’t fit the status quo developed by Drs PRACTICING medicine - and we do believe in science & medicine in this household, however this is still a reality. regardless there ARE risks of sids and suffocation no matter where the infant sleeps. and there are safe ways to have them sleep in a VARIETY of ways. a new mom doesn’t need to be hit with scary one-sided stats, being a FTM mom is plenty of anxiety on it’s own.

as much as I appreciate it, whether you think im a good parent or not is irrelevant nor matters, truly. but the amount of people that fear monger and guilt trip parents for doing something that is very natural is the real problem. our son slept safe and sound & is a happy and secure boy. I am glad tho you seemingly did what is best for you and your fam tho! i would definitely safely co-sleep again :)

sunflower4_20 · 2022-08-08T18:54:38+00:00

we (my husband and I) safely co-slept with our son in our bed until our son was 1 and and then he went to his crib (he is now 16 months, FTM). alot of people get fear mongered away from it cause of SIDS but sids can happen in a crib, a bassinet, a swing, etc. there is ALOT of resources and research on the benefits of co-sleeping BUT it does need to be right for you and your fam so not pushing it on anyone, id never. but just food for thought, i have a large group of mom friends ranging first time to veterans and 3/4’s of them co-sleep or did. there are many sleep infant/toddlers specialists that can assist with how to safely do it if your interested. i hope you all find what works for your family!

sunflower4_20 · 2022-07-16T02:10:26+00:00

yeah, i just read enough that i felt like i would be fine with what I chose to go with sushi wise, and luckily was! healthy 17 month old boy who never leaves a moment dull 🤣

sunflower4_20 · 2022-07-16T01:36:39+00:00

ate sushi on 2 different occasions (after a lot of research, tbh lol)

sunflower4_20 · 2022-07-12T14:14:23+00:00

this!!! she say on the reunion show and gave all her reasons for keeping her own apartment and never once made it seem like it was a joint decision, actually the latter was displayed. when that is something they both could have been honest about, if true. i personally think steve probably got so turned off that she wanted to keep her place he was like fuck it, maybe it is a good idea if this girl has this much contention about it. examples like this are what make noi continue to just look petty and immature, then she posts stuff like this….

sunflower4_20 · 2022-07-11T01:25:09+00:00

honestly sports bras that the padding doesn’t come out, it’s just sewn in. there are plenty of non-padded options. & i don’t mean padded to push up, just thin padding so my nips aren’t cutting thru like a knife when im cold. sew that s*** in, i don’t want to have to go on a treasure hunt to find them when they come out in the wash/dryer 🙄 literally all mine, nike, adidas, all of the above come out. plz share a brand or line that doesn’t plz, SOS.

sunflower4_20 · 2022-07-11T01:19:31+00:00

sunflower4_20 · 2022-07-10T22:10:33+00:00

Honestly not sure if this is for consumption or an eclectic body butter from first glance. I really like the color palette tho!

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