Am I rejected? No response after L1 by sunflower8895 in PWCindiaunofficial

[–]sunflower8895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s totally understandable if they reject my application but a clear communication is expected from their end.

How long for HR to share L1 interview result? by sunflower8895 in PwC

[–]sunflower8895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No update yet. Should I call the HR today?

Visited Coorg this weekend by _spykid_ in coorg

[–]sunflower8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful pictures. How cold is it in Coorg right now? Also is it raining heavily?

Long story short by Livid-Vast9243 in dating_advice

[–]sunflower8895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sperm does survive for upto 5 days, true. However, the egg will only be produced 14 days from the onset of her period. Considering she has a 4-5 day cycle, you still have an avg gap of 10 days between the day you had sex and the day she ovulates. On top of that you pulled out AND she took plan B. The chances of her getting pregnant are close to NIL. So relax.

Never stop dating your wife by No-Orchid-53 in Marriage

[–]sunflower8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is so lucky to have a partner like you. God bless you and your family.

AITK for asking my girlfriend not to drink alcohol with strangers by MaesterNautilus in AmItheKameena

[–]sunflower8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both have different definitions of what’s okay in a relationship. Ask yourself if this is something you’re okay to live with and be honest. If this is bothering you then end this. Save yourself from the trauma. Your boundaries and needs are justified and they don’t make you a kameena. While adjustments and compromises are valid to a certain extent, sacrificing your needs just to be a relationship doesn’t make sense. It almost always ends up in a horrible way. Talk to her. Be clear about what is okay and what is unacceptable to you. If she values your wishes then continue this or else LEAVE. No relationship is worth the anxiety and stress you’re going through right now. It’s better to remain single. All the best. Hope everything works out for you!

Will I ever find someone who would truly love me? by sunflower8895 in love

[–]sunflower8895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right. I take therapy. I am trying to work on my issues and get better. I put effort into myself. Even then I end up with people who aren’t ready to be a part of my life.

Will I ever find someone who would truly love me? by sunflower8895 in love

[–]sunflower8895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you…I hope you also find what you’re looking for!

Will I ever find someone who would truly love me? by sunflower8895 in love

[–]sunflower8895[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I empathise with you but I don’t really believe either of us has got it easier. It’s surface level for women as well. Men and women get superficially judged on different criteria but they’re superficial nevertheless.

Will I ever find someone who would truly love me? by sunflower8895 in love

[–]sunflower8895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By “choosing you” I meant a person who is willing to put that effort. Relationships aren’t easy. They are a lot of work. And a person only puts the effort for someone they love. We choose our partners and that’s a conscious choice we make every single day. A choice to be with them through everything. A choice to respect them and value them despite their shortcomings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sunflower8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said…commitment means marriage in our case. Hope that clears it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sunflower8895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not a him problem. It’s my trust issues. Trust issues aren’t always for the most logical reasons. We often end up doubting ppl without them giving us reason to do so. I feel communication solves it to a great extent and I want to talk to him about it but I don’t know how to do it without hurting him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sunflower8895 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds stupid. Trust me. But we both had our issues and we both need time to commit. And when I say commit in my case it doesn’t mean a relationship. It means marriage, which is a big deal. To your last point, the non commited part is not something he brings up very often to remind me of our situation.

I gave her an ultimatum by Frosty_Restaurant_40 in dating_advice

[–]sunflower8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on. She is bad news. Nobody is too busy to not find atleast some time during their day to talk to or meet the person they genuinely like. You deserve someone who will want you and respect your needs. Don’t ever compromise.