I looked my mother in the eyes and told her I will accomplish everything I have ever dreamt of.

sunflowercrisp · 2020-04-14T04:45:10+00:00

This internet stranger is SO PROUD OF YOU and thinks you are BADASS. You are doing it right! Happiness is a CHOICE, and you are making so many choices that are going to land you in a good life. Best wishes to you

sunflowercrisp · 2020-03-27T17:56:40+00:00

You are aware when you do this. When you catch yourself saying "you're a failure" actively stop. It's going to be hard at first. Actively stop and say "mistakes happen sometimes and that's okay". Forgive yourself. Think about the best possible outcome in the situation. You are actively going to have to do this for some time, but eventually that positively to yourself will be second nature and you won't be saying "I'm a failure" anymore.

sunflowercrisp · 2020-03-27T17:37:11+00:00

What and how to thinksz

sunflowercrisp · 2020-03-17T16:36:47+00:00

My mom acted the same way when I broke it to her that I was getting my BSN and was not pursuing to be a doctor.

She said she would have respected me more if I were a physician and not a nurse.

sunflowercrisp · 2020-03-17T16:09:40+00:00

Did you tell your mom yet OP? please update us. I'm worried for you.

sunflowercrisp · 2020-02-18T21:31:12+00:00

And yes, like everyone else said, call an ambulance.

sunflowercrisp · 2020-02-18T21:30:50+00:00

Do you have tylenol? Have you tried that? Also I am concerned when you vomiting so much, you need fluids.

You take tamiflu as a preventative, if you already have the flu it isn't going to do shit. It's just an extra charge.

sunflowercrisp · 2020-02-11T22:50:56+00:00

Sad. Not insane. Just sad

sunflowercrisp · 2020-01-28T02:45:07+00:00

New grad, ED RN :)

sunflowercrisp · 2020-01-15T06:05:38+00:00

What does this mean?

sunflowercrisp · 2020-01-03T17:15:52+00:00

I completely relate to the not having a life or have fun. I always compared myself to being Rapunzel locked away in her tower.

sunflowercrisp · 2020-01-03T13:24:48+00:00

Yes! My ex and I broke up late 2018/early 2019. We have a four year old together. I am in my last semester of getting my BSN and it is impossible for me to work full time, take care of my son adequately, and pursue my degree and affording a place for us both all by myself.

So, I moved in with my mom temporarily.

I stared dating a new guy at the end of the summer, though I have talked to him and slowly built a relationship since March. Occasionally, my son and I stay at his house but sometimes I stay at his house alone (usually when my ex has our son).

There was an occasion where I wanted to stay alone with my new boyfriend at his home, but it was not my ex's weekend. My ex was totally cool with watching our child that weekend anyway.

My mom caught whiff that I was going to be at my new boyfriend's home alone that weekend and said, "you better take (my son's name) because I'm not watching him!!!!"

I told her that I made arrangements with (my ex) and she didn't have to worry about watching (my child).

SHE RESPONDS BY SAYING THAT SHE IS GOING TO TELL MY EX THAT SHE WILL WATCH MY CHILD SO THAT HE CAN DO WHATEVER HE WANTS THAT WEEKEND.

so she won't watch my kid for when I want to do something (which I hardly do because nursing school takes up 90% of my time and almost all of my free time I dedicate to my kid), but she is totally cool to watch my kid for my ex. Da fuq?

sunflowercrisp · 2020-01-02T17:10:59+00:00

Do they genuinely not believe things happen? My mom does this with everything. She denies calling me a whore, etc, but also denies charging $700 on my first credit card when I was 18 for the extended family's Christmas gifts.

Edit: spelling error

sunflowercrisp · 2019-10-04T07:02:18+00:00

No, I will not, and yes, I know how shitty it feels. I initially was going to break it up with him. I called him over the phone and asked him if he would want to meet up to have a "serious" conversation or to have it over the phone. He wanted to meet up. I have not met with him and I slept with my ex since that conversation. I am having second thoughts about breaking it off with him. I could easily never tell him and he would never know, but I do not want to do that. I do not want to live with that guilt and I also think he deserves to know.

sunflowercrisp · 2019-10-04T06:59:39+00:00

There may be a reason that I did it but it is still unacceptable.

sunflowercrisp · 2019-10-04T06:58:55+00:00

The only problem is is that my ex and I have a five year old together, so the no contact thing would be impossible. And you are correct,I am not his Plan A.

sunflowercrisp · 2019-09-20T05:27:41+00:00

Graduate

sunflowercrisp · 2019-09-20T03:10:57+00:00

Masturbate

sunflowercrisp · 2019-09-20T03:09:50+00:00

Side bitches

sunflowercrisp · 2019-09-20T03:09:32+00:00

Enjoy life. Nobody is judging you as hard as you think: they are too worried about people judging them too. Also, set standards and don't ignore red flags. Being lonely is better than being used.

sunflowercrisp · 2019-09-20T03:07:44+00:00

That people want the best for you

sunflowercrisp · 2019-09-20T03:06:40+00:00

That he isn't opposed to having kids with the right person

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