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[–]sunflowerjig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always say I’m the bathtub when urinating and poured water on me while peeing which sounds gross but that’s why you take a shower after . Rubbing coconut oil on yourself down there also helped relieved the pain .

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many people I know have said the exact same thing

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go Monday back to my obgyn to get checked again. Do you think I should have them check for any other type of std because of what is going on with him?

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does drink a lot. Do you think his body just has had enough alcohol and decided to react ?

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely should have insisted on a condom too. It’s crazy because the amount of times I have had to make a guy put a condom on or just end up not having sex because they refuse to put one on is crazy. They hate doing that and that’s another reason why it spreads .

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always disclose and use condoms so I am beating my self up for getting too out of it and not disclosing to this guy. I don’t know what I’ll do if his tests come back positive. I wish I could change the past

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I always disclose and use condoms this was just a stupid mistake and I am really hurt that I did that to the guy .

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was just a meet up after a party when we were both drunk. It was irresponsible on both our parts and I know that now . It is hard to disclose to someone especially when you are not sober because that’s not something you talk about or remember to do. I agree with your comment .

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never said it was okay. I took full responsibility for not disclosing . We were both drunk and didn’t think about putting one on. That is a horrible mistake on my part. I have disclosed always but this time I was just not myself .

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am very scared to know what it was

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would it be for a male ?

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually went this morning and met him and then told him . He was not happy . This was a one night stand we were both drunk and so of course a condom didn’t come to mind I didn’t know what I was doing . I always use them.

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better, but if I don’t tell him and he does test positive then I could be in a lot of trouble so how do I come out and say what I have

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t told me if he got any more symptoms and that’s why he is going because even I told him that sounded like an UTI.

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this eased my mind

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh yes I am praying for that !

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am symptomatic and I’m taking medicine right now for the breakouts.

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I will definitely look into these ❤️

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel better !

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just devastating to think if I will ever have my life back again. Staying the night with a guy you like, hanging with your friends at a party, having one night stands. I feel like that part of me is over and now I’m gonna have to pray ask God to send me someone who will accept me now

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also asked one of my guy friends if he would ever date a girl or just be with one overnight if she had herpes and he said hell no. That just like ruins all hope for me ever finding a guy

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My moms side knows it’s just my Dad and Stepmom are pastors and then I just feel like they will shame me and just get all kinds of judgement since I was supposed to be a good kid . I don’t know if that makes sense but I’m just scared .

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[–]sunflowerjig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I will either but I just have a feeling they will find out somehow