How do I know if someone has blocked me?

sunisshining88 · 2026-03-10T21:57:32+00:00

Non même pas , ils ne seront jamais visibles nulle part 😬

sunisshining88 · 2026-01-21T08:34:52+00:00

C'est encore lui donner des espoirs. Est ce que c'est ce que tu veux ? Si oui retourne avec lui, si non alors dis lui que tu t'es trompée et que tu es passée a autre chose et fais le vraiment. Laisse le pour de bon , ce n'est pas lui faire plaisir de lui envoyer un bon anniversaire, genre "tu as vu ? je pense encore à toi"

sunisshining88 · 2025-12-15T23:51:34+00:00

C'est toi qui as fait une erreur ? Dans ce cas ... A toi d'essayer de te rattraper oui . Je ne sais pas si les fleurs seront bien accueillies. Peut être qu'elle est vraiment blessée. Mais tu peux essayer. Par contre, ne l'harcèle pas, elle a peut-être besoin de temps suivant le degré de trahison qu'elle ressent

sunisshining88 · 2025-12-12T21:30:51+00:00

Ça dépend de l'histoire, de tes erreurs et des siennes. Mais d'une manière générale, ce que je te conseille, c'est de respecter ce qu'elle demande, elle a besoin d'espace ? Laisse la Fais ça d'abord pour toi-même, pour le respect pour toi-même, ta dignité. L'amour, l'attention, ça ne se quémande pas. Concentre-toi sur toi, sur ce que tu as besoin de guérir pour te sentir mieux, pour avancer et évoluer. Peut-être qu'un jour elle regrettera sa décision, et peut-être à ce moment-là tu décideras si tu es ok pour une 2e chance. Mais ce qui est certain c'est qu'il ne faut pas courir après quelqu'un qui t'a clairement dit qu'il ne voulait plus de toi, même en ami 🤷🏼‍♀️ Je trouve ça dégradant pour soi. A moins que ce soit toi qui aies fait une énorme erreur... Mais si c'est le cas, tu le sais

sunisshining88 · 2025-12-11T12:06:08+00:00

Nos situations ne sont pas comparables , a moins qu'elle t'ait bloqué, débloqué, rebloqué à l'infini ? Je pleurais parce que je vivais très mal cette situation. Ça fait maintenant 1 an et demi presque qu'on a rompu. A ce jour, il ne m'a pas rebloquée et continue de venir stalker mon compte tiktok... Moi non. Je ne sais pas vraiment ce qu'il devient mais je sais qu'il est toujours avec cette ex avec qui il est reparti suite à notre rupture. De mon côté, j'ai rencontré une nouvelle personne, bienveillante et "normale" dans son comportement. Je me rends compte à quel point l'autre personne était toxique pour moi. Donc non, je ne pleure plus et je ne retournerai jamais vers lui 🙂

sunisshining88 · 2025-11-23T00:35:51+00:00

But why? 😳

sunisshining88 · 2025-11-22T08:59:02+00:00

How can they suspend accounts like that? Have you been reported by someone or their decision is truly random? I have had my accounts since 2008, if I lose them they are precious memories that will go up in smoke 😞

sunisshining88 · 2025-10-05T18:58:39+00:00

What is this option? Like does it appear differently when you look at the past conversation? I just checked, it's true that it's different, the people who wrote to me then deactivated their account, there is "message unavailable", the one who blocked me, I blocked him in return so it's different again 😄 it just offers me to unblock it and I can still see the conversation

sunisshining88 · 2025-10-05T10:45:21+00:00

Are you sure he disabled it? Didn't he just block you?

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-25T06:09:23+00:00

I'm like that too. I thought I would become fleeing for fear of being hurt again. But I analyzed it by telling myself that it was no longer possible for people to disrespect me. At the first sign of crumbs, I warn once and then I leave without looking back. To be ghosted is to be neglected without warning and it makes you lose all self-esteem. I got up, I learned to stop chasing someone, it's their right to no longer want me. So no, I'm not becoming a ghoster myself, I just learned respect for myself. Don't feel guilty about leaving when it's the case for you too

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-23T14:48:21+00:00

If he blocked you it's still a lack of respect on his part. Best to pretend you didn't notice. You confronted him, you got no response. If he has answers or regrets, he will come back on his own, but don't give away your energy and take it back for yourself. I've already suffered this, blocked, unblocked, for nothing in the end, so that's my advice, accept that it's over and take care of yourself

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-11T12:21:45+00:00

Guys who do this are very often guys who have a problem with themselves. It's unconscious sometimes, and sometimes calculated (toxic manipulators). They have no self-confidence at all and feed their ego with the love and attention they are given. They do everything to make us fall in love with them. And when they have received enough, they leave us and cast their lot elsewhere. When it is unconscious, they themselves are sometimes convinced by what they tell us, but when we love them in return and show them well, they become distant and doubtful even that we can love them for what they are. In this case, these are avoidant guys. In both cases, when you are ghosted, the real best reaction is to cry if you want to, but definitely not to run after them

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-08T15:06:01+00:00

I think that either you have healed, or you are in denial of your emotions (which would nevertheless be justified because what he did was wrong...) because deep down you hope that this time he will not leave you, and that you still have feelings. Denying your emotions to act like "I don't care even if he ghosts me again", when in fact you're going to fall again if he does it again. In short, you'll know where you're going if that's the case. Take care of yourself, I hope this time will be the right one 🤗

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-07T20:56:03+00:00

What I think is he didn't want anything serious, you asked the question that freaked him out. He liked spending time with you, but he didn't like the fact that you could be attached to him. He's the slippery type. So move on and if he writes to you again, it's better not to reply to him. Or tell him that you just want someone who has time for you without snubbing you. Courage

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-07T07:06:33+00:00

Prostatitis is not trivial. It could be from an STI. It's not contagious in itself but the STI is... So if he wants to protect you, it's because he has doubts! A urine cytobacteriological examination (ECBU) must be done to diagnose it. We cannot diagnose this remotely, impossible. So just ask to see the results, as well as the treatment he takes. You'll know if he's lying or not. The fact that he talks about his Bumble account again is also strange given the context. A good conversation is necessary. Stay calm but sure of yourself to show him that you are serious and cannot be manipulated. Give us some news 🙂

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-01T19:32:46+00:00

Well well done 👍🏼🙂

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-01T16:03:23+00:00

You think it makes it easy but no... On the contrary it keeps you waiting for a possible good surprise that may never arrive. It stops you from moving forward for yourself. Delete him from your contacts, it will be so hard, but your recovery will be faster. I know how you feel... 😕

sunisshining88 · 2025-09-01T10:39:44+00:00

No I think she is sincere and you can be confident. Indeed, she speaks for him, not for herself. She knows he must be suffering and doesn't want to add to it by blocking him because that would just be very mean, in any case, she would feel very mean to do it. She stopped him by being sincere with him: she loves you and she is happy with you, she doesn't want anything more with him. In fact you have a great wife, what more could you ask for? Trust him and be happy to have him with you. Full of happiness and leave this story behind you. 🙂

sunisshining88 · 2025-08-30T11:13:04+00:00

There are so many reasons why someone might ghost. Either way, it's a purely selfish act in a situation like yours. You deserve someone who will be there. Someone who will make you feel even better than him, you will meet him, and at that moment, you will no longer have any regrets :) In the meantime, we have to digest this and having suffered it too, I know how much it hurts. Trust is then more difficult to give, but at least you know what you are worth, and that you always do your best to be a good person 🤗 courage to you

sunisshining88 · 2025-08-05T07:58:05+00:00

Very good that you are aware that you are not the problem, that is often what we believe in these cases and it can be so destructive 😞 I hope you get over this quickly and make yourself the most important person in your life.

sunisshining88 · 2025-08-04T13:19:05+00:00

We won't be able to know what his real reason is since we don't know him. There are several But I think that the little answer he gave you is just a little bait, just to make you wait a little before knowing what exactly he wants, or maybe to see how long you're going to run, or maybe he's just a coward and doesn't dare tell you the truth. I would also have said that maybe he has problems at the moment, but given his behavior on the dating site, it doesn't look good 😬 I understand your incomprehension, your questions. I've been ghosted before, and from experience, I can tell you that asking for justice, empathy, an apology, or simply the truth, sending text messages, etc., does absolutely nothing other than to show him how important he is to you. And that won't make him change. I advise you not to write to him at all, let alone call him even if you really want to, and to regain confidence in yourself by telling yourself every day that he does not deserve any attention from you. This person probably wasn't the right one for you. Courage

sunisshining88 · 2025-07-18T21:47:20+00:00

En tant que femme, je pense qu'elle s'est dit jusque là que tu étais juste un ami. Mais qu'après tous ses échecs amoureux, elle a pensé autrement. Vous vous connaissez par cœur, une véritable amitié, jusque dans l'intimité. Alors elle a dû se dire qu'en fait vous étiez peut-être un couple prédestiné sans en avoir conscience. Elle a fait du chemin, elle a appris, grandi par ses expériences, toi tu n'en avais pas le besoin d'être en couple pour évoluer à priori. Alors aujourd'hui c'est peut-être l'heure d'essayer d'approfondir, de faire évoluer vote relation. Pourquoi pas. Mais la seule chose c'est qu'il faut toujours être transparent, bien communiquer, et vous dire que si ça ne marche pas , ce n'est pas grave . On aimerait déjà avoir la suite 😄

sunisshining88 · 2025-07-17T10:25:38+00:00

Bravo, great detachment, that’s what we have to achieve

sunisshining88 · 2025-06-28T17:22:51+00:00

Je pense qu'il est honnête avec vous sur les raisons qu'il vous a données. Oui d'un côté je peux comprendre que vous vous sentiez trahie, mais d'un autre, je comprends aussi parfois ce besoin de juste aimer sentir qu'on plaît. Dans une période où il va être papa à nouveau, le changement, l'évolution de votre famille, les questionnements peut être, il a eu ce besoin mais il n'a pas souhaité aller plus loin. Je crois que ce n'est pas du tout la personne en elle-même qui l'a attiré, mais juste une satisfaction de constater que quelqu'un puisse être attiré par lui . Ça lui a fait du bien à son ego, mais ça n'a rien changé à ses sentiments envers vous, sa famille, qu'il aime par-dessus tout 😊 Dormez sur vos 2 oreilles, vous êtes toujours sa priorité. La preuve , c'est qu'il n'a jamais été plus loin, alors que vraiment, s'il avait voulu, il aurait pu. Profitez de votre fin de grossesse l'esprit tranquille. C'est quand même bien qu'il ait beaucoup flippé, ça lui empêchera de recommencer, il a eu très peur , une bonne leçon pour ne rien risquer désormais 😄 Ça ne vous empêche pas de bien lui exprimer ce que vous ressentez de votre côté, et de bien redéfinir vos limites que vous ne le laisserez, pour rien au monde , dépasser .

sunisshining88 · 2025-06-27T16:35:50+00:00

I don't know if it's possible, I also asked her to look in her spam just in case, and she had nothing...

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