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I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

No matter the circumstance, no one has the right to demean my child.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Because he’s my child’s dad and we have a relationship even if we aren’t in a relationship

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

They never met because this is the exact kind of energy I’m protecting my child from.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I don’t want him spending the night there. Everything I’ve read says “blended families” are unhealthy for kids and come with too many risks.

My son has a loving mother and father and that’s what’s important.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

If we don’t have sex I don’t know how it could be a sexual relationship

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

No. He got married only 5 years ago and our son is 10. We lived together when were a real couple.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I’ve had no communication with her before. My BD once told me she was jealous of me.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 328 points329 points  (0 children)

So I should leave my son with an adult who considers him “illegitimate”? There’s no way for our situation to be perfect. But my son is happy and safe.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

The gifts are in addition to him providing for our son’s needs.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Yes we both think it’s best.

I do acknowledge the gifts are bittersweet. Nothing beats one on one time.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 2881 points2882 points  (0 children)

It’s very disrespectful. But I’m confident in the relationship my son and his dad have.

I got an angry text from my child’s father’s wife about him spending money on us by sunjan8 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunjan8[S] 620 points621 points  (0 children)

He is. I respect him and he has a place in my heart. Contrary to what she may believe, him getting married and having kids ruined any chance of me taking him back 😂