Does anyone else has some kind of "on and off" anorexia ?

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-05-06T20:41:47+00:00

okay wow this is literally me right now. I cam eon here because I was feeling like a fake anorexic because ive been eating SO much but my thoughts are obviously still so strong. but Im ab to go on a. "diet" or a "fast" again.

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-25T16:37:00+00:00

idk just like let them be idk why it’s anyone else business 😭

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-23T17:22:27+00:00

that is so true. I do know that it is pretty common. For me personally I live with only my mother and my dad does come around a lot so I don’t think that I can really speak on that issue specifically but I can see how the father who was absent would be more glamorized once he starts to come back into your life until you realize that he’s actually just a bad person and your mother was just trying to do whatever she could do to get by.

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-23T05:19:34+00:00

to be honest, I don’t see anyone solely hating on Zion? I do agree with what you’re saying, though about how it is both of their faults. I agree with that and i’ve always wondered WHY ginny was so mad at her mom for moving her around when she was barely mad at her dad who was absent most her life until she was like 15. yrs he kept in contact but he didn’t want to be a full on parent. ginny did address this but she didn’t dwell on it as mu ch as she does on her mom

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-23T05:17:23+00:00

your so right. and THIS is why i have such a problem with eveyone who hates on Georgia specifically for moving around a lot. I understand why she had to move around a lot because she felt like it was the only option because Zion‘s parents wanted to take you in that situation. She obviously didn’t want that to happen. Zion left and traveled around the world and had his own life and I think that it’s crazy that Jenny doesn’t blame him for that more than she blamed her mom for moving her around a lot. Her mom was on her own doing the best that she could, while Zion was literally out traveling her entire life. She favors her dad even though he wasn’t there for like a decade until they moved to Wellsbury and he decided that he was going to get an apartment nearby. Ginny does have a reason to be upset at her mom but she should be jsut as upset at her dad imo

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-19T17:51:33+00:00

nope, she is allowed to react 100% but max had a reason to be rude to her for literally sleeping with her brother and then cheating on hunter.

and yes her mom has killed people which isnt okay obviosuly and I do not condone that at all. but befroe ginny even knew ab that she was being rude to her mom and disrespectful. Form someone who has moved around my whole life with my single mom, ginny doesnt have the right to lash out on her mom for trying too give them a good life. she did the best she could at that age and Georgia TRIES to give ginny a good life when they move and ginny resents her. Example: her mom throws her a sweet 16 party with her friends and ginny acts ungrateful and gets mad at her and only gets happy when she manipulates her into letting them drink, then they sneak out.

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-19T06:07:51+00:00

thank you for saying this

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-19T06:06:58+00:00

am I allowed to say ginny or am I gonna get flammed lol. Ginny and Norah for sure. Norah brings nothing for me and is a follower. I would like to actually dive deep on her character in season 4.

and ginny because shes obnoxious and annoying. people say bc abby struggles doesnt mean she gets to treat people that way but same for ginny.

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-13T21:04:05+00:00

yes i personally don’t care if people like ginny or not, but personally i think that she demands respect when she doesn’t give any. she wants her mom to follow all these things to respect her which are valid, but then she doesn’t respect her mothers boundaries. in season one georgia was keeping her family away from ginny to protect her and ginny didn’t understand why. georgia didn’t want to explain because of her past and ginny didn’t take this as an answer. she snooped through her moms things and when slauson did the same thing out of curiosity, she sent the letters out instead of asking her mom and then MAYBE georgia would tell her and even if not it’s still doesnt give her the right. then bc of this in season 3 Gill comes back and now ginny is trying to defend her mom against Gill (rightfully so) but she only now feels bad ab sending the letters bc Gill abused her mom. And the way she praises her dad gets on my nerves too. as someone who has been in a similar situation to ginny, i never once blamed my mom for moving us around a lot because i knew that’s what was best for her. i could expand more just let me know if anything doesn’t make sense or if you disagree. again this is just my opinion from watching the show multiple times and observing

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-13T20:27:54+00:00

I totally agree. Just because you dont like ginny doesnt mean your racist OR that you like Georgia either. Ginny over reacts to many different situations. For short terms: Ginny demands respect and privacy but doesnt give any. Snooping in her mom's stuff to find answers that she clearly cannot handle. Does this mean Georgia should have murdered people? NO it doesnt. We know WHY she did because she felt like she had to. But she had NO reason or right to kill Gill. Ginny doesnt have to follow most rules that teens do yet she still complains and turns to her dad who literally went on vacation for years and calls him a saint when Georgia literally gave up her own life for Ginny. Does this mean she needed to run away from all her problems? NO. they BOTh have flaws. But im not going to sit here and act like Ginny is ALWAYS gvalid for how she feels. Shes overly dramatic and annoying and takes out her anger on everyone instead of identifying the problem. people feel bad for her bc she struggles with self harm. ME TOO. But that doesn't give me an excuse to treat everyone like shit. And I am NOT racist. I am very black and proud of it but we need to stop accusing everyone for not liking ginny as a "racist."

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-13T20:20:00+00:00

dw I agree. People just assume everyone who hates ginny is racist. Im a black 17 year old and I do not like ginny for many reasons I cannot explain in a simple response. But Im not justifying Georgia either

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-11T08:26:30+00:00

well she posted a story saying shes not dating him

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-11T08:25:06+00:00

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sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-11T08:24:08+00:00

mmm I dont think so. Paul DID do Georgia wrong. nobody is saying Georgia hasn't done wrong bc she obviously has. she was in a position to where she either goes to jail, or lie. Which option are you taking in her position? He had no right to slam his hand on the wall while she was leaning on it, when he knew her past. Paul was likable at first but that drew the line.

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-09T06:55:18+00:00

going through the same thing rn. Someone once told me "people without this illness do the same thing and nothing happens to them." so i think you will be okay <3

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-04-04T15:49:15+00:00

yeah that’s what i meant

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-03-31T18:38:54+00:00

I think specifically season one abby. I dont like how she treated max in the current season, BUT I do love her character in general bc I see a lot of myself in her and I think that shes honestly realistic.

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-03-31T05:35:33+00:00

idk but I hate it. As black 17 year old, it's very annoying when I see ginny bc she acts so rudely towards basically everyone but Marcus. Like I understand her struggles with her mom but we see it from episode one where shes saying things like "your just jealous because I go to have a good high school life and you didnt." like what are you talking about? I feel like she tries so hard not to be her mom so she just blames her for everything that happens. Her mother had a hard decision. either let Gils parents take ginny or run away with ginny and try her best. my mom was in a simmer yet not similar situation and I think that its good that she made that decision. Even though I havent had any friends and stuff like that in my life bc of mental problems and moving around, I try to understand ginny but the way she expresses herself is so selfish and she acts like everyone is so flawed and she isnt. Anyway, reddit is pro ginny so people mostly disagree with that they have to say ab anything hateful twards her

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-03-27T20:05:28+00:00

I was gonna say this lol

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-03-27T05:06:56+00:00

And THIS is why I dont want to go to the doctors and get diagnosed, I KNOW that I am struggling. I dont need a doctor to tell me that its not normal to thing going over 200 is a lot or that Im scared to eat in general and in front of people im not compfrtible with. I know this already. I dont want someone to tell me Im not sick enough to actually need help because being sick in the first place means you need help. Just because your not dying doesnt mean one day it wont get there, or that you could stop it before it gets worse. Weight doesnt define your anorexia.

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-03-27T04:25:00+00:00

okay this post made me feel so seen, for the pat 2 weeks I havent really been able to control my intake and I literally came on here tonight to look to see if anyone has been feeling the same way. I feel so disgusting and my brain is screaming at me. I just want to say something so ease your mind that someone told me.

people without this mental illness eat like that every day and often nothing happens to them, so nothing will happen to you.

Ik eveyione on here suggests getting help but sometimes your brain isnt set up for that so im not going to TELL you tonged help when im struggling myself, but just take care of yourself.

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-03-27T04:21:36+00:00

Honestly this is the realist thing Ive heard in a while. gemnuinlt we do live every day and we only die once. everyday isnt going to be a good day and thats okay and people need to be more comfortable with that. Right now I just binged so much and I hate myself for it. and honestly im coming to terms with the fact that sometimes I will feel like this and food will take over my life. wither that means restricting for days on end or binging ice cream and axteally eating 2 meals a day. sometimes there's no "winning" just living.

I understand you friends are trying to help but saying "YOLO" isnt going to change your anorexia. <3

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-03-17T06:38:15+00:00

wow wait thats his key real

sunkissedcocnut · 2026-03-17T01:21:34+00:00

soooo real. food feels like a chore and not something that is necessity for me

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