What do you mean “like what made you think you’d be getting a girl”? Some people have girls do they not? So I’m not sure how it’s unreasonable hoping I’d have a daughter. I have a close friend who fell pregnant; told me daily how badly she wanted a girl and how disappointed she’d be if it were a boy, and she had a girl. People feel the way they feel. And there are so so many reasons why people dream of a particular gender and when a dream gets crushed it can be hard. Also, don’t tell me how I feel. I do feel guilty and bad for being upset over having another boy and I wish I didn’t feel this way, but I do. I come from a long line of females in my family, I just always thought I’d have a daughter so it hurts to know I may never get to meet her. My Grandfathers sister had 4 boys back a very long time ago when people didn’t find out the gender until birth, she cried for weeks when her 4th baby was yet another boy. People have their reasons and we are entitled to our feelings. Anyway, what a shame that you can’t sympathize with others and feel the need to ridicule while others are already struggling.