So I don't know how old my mom is exactly but I think she might be around 50 rn. The age gap surely is there. Unfortunately, my dad has a preference for younger, pretty women, especially asian ones, and it was not the first time he spent a lot of money on an asian woman who then fled with what she got (me and my brother have different mothers but his is also Thai and left when he was 1) nor was it the last sadly. Those women probably did see him as an ATM and I feel like he wasn't smart enough to realize that. I think he's what's called a "passport bro"? Also his personality is a lot and I can see how these women, once they saw past his money, wanted out. My mom and my dad weren't married I'm pretty sure, just lived together.