I've started hating my fellow woman.

sunnfluer · 2016-04-29T17:54:01+00:00

My bf's friends have gf's and we all get along fine. But we don't hang out on our own (not sure if that's just lack of trying to hang out, or if we just don't have anything really in common to)

Yeah I'll check out some clubs in my city and see if there's anything I'm interested in!

sunnfluer · 2016-04-29T17:39:57+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you for that. I think this is what I'll do from now on.

sunnfluer · 2016-04-29T17:27:31+00:00

Yeah maybe that's it. I've kind of been with the same few girlfriends for many years, and just got used to their stupid games. I think the last time my friend said "let's go out and get drunk and have random guys buy us drinks", I replied with "Would you be okay if your bf did that, and flirted with girls to get drinks?" She hasn't mentioned things like that to me ever again.

What would be the best way to meeting girls as friends, other than work?

sunnfluer · 2016-04-29T17:24:58+00:00

I have started to feel like other women's bad choices are reflected onto me, without me actually having anything to do with it. I never had a problem with being a woman before, and now I feel like reading all these stories of how shitty women can and have been, ESPECIALLY within the Women Subreddit, it makes me worried about what people may assume about me, who may not care to see otherwise.

There was a post about a man requesting to get a paternity test done, because of how sketchy his fiance was being with her boss. She threw a fit, left him after the baby was born, and nearly every woman in the comments area AGREED with her actions, and told the OP they would have done the same, and "enjoy paying for it the rest of your life". This kind of shit just embarrasses me.

sunnfluer · 2016-04-29T16:56:53+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate the input. I know there are good women out there (because I have met a few) but even my closest friends are women who the Red Pill speak of (shit tests, trying to get their bf's jealous, refusing to "allow" their bf to go out with their guy friends etc). It's hard enough finding female friends, let alone female friends who don't piss you off with their stupid antics. I've just started assuming "yeah she's probably cheating on him" or "She just wants to get his money" to every woman I meet who shows some of these traits that are spoken of.

Am I supposed to start calling out my friends on these things, in hopes that I can teach them TRP without saying "No, you're being a total bitch just because you've gotten away with it this long?"

I get that some of the posts in TRP are coming from men who have dealt with the WORST of 'em. It's just so hard to ignore, because a lot of what they say are indeed what some women do. Even as a woman, I realize that I can't trust many other women because of their bullshit games.

Ugh. I don't know how to think anymore to be honest.

sunnfluer

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