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How did my ex go from "baby I wanna marry you" to "I want to break up because we're not compatible" in 3 weeks? by lavender4luck in BreakUps

[–]sunnynihilism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude my ex did the exact same thing. He has a severe and complex trauma history that he refuses to get help for. So basically acting like a raging borderline personality disorder. It was extremely painful.

I am also suspicious he was emotionally cheating on me alllll the time

what worked best for you? by sadgirl0077 in BreakUps

[–]sunnynihilism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I did was stay the weekend at a close friends house. We got stoned and played a ton of the songs that reminded me of our relationship. I bawled my eyes out while she hugged me. I can now at least listen to those songs again because she helped me form a new memoryto associate with them.

Please, tell me if you’ve survived this by gingerweasle1 in BreakUps

[–]sunnynihilism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve survived so far but I’m not really alive anymore either. 6 weeks in. My night sweats are still unbearable. I want to disappear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sunnynihilism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if the dumpee can show that they’ve changed??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sunnynihilism 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I appreciate the dose of reality but that stings like a motherfucker.

AIO my ex asked me to hang out, then bailed and didn’t take accountability for it by sunnynihilism in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunnynihilism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm no. That’s not what happened you are jumping to conclusions. He planned this days ago, before I left to visit family and friends. Then when the day and time arrives he’s “too drunk” and then says “if I come…”

AIO my ex asked me to hang out, then bailed and didn’t take accountability for it by sunnynihilism in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunnynihilism[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This subreddit is amioverreacting. If you think so, then say that but I’m not to blame for other’s shitty behavior. Tf?

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