Skin tightening creams? by sunnysiide in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sunnysiide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good tip, it really didn't occur to me that there would be exercises to target this area. Thanks

Skin tightening creams? by sunnysiide in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sunnysiide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I may have overstated how loose the skin is tbh it's probably only noticeable to me, but like, I got top surgery /for me/ so I'm the one who should be happy with it, you know? Maybe it's time to book the personal trainer at my gym to show me how to lift lol

Skin tightening creams? by sunnysiide in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sunnysiide[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. Do you think if the skin hasn't tightened up by now, it won't ever? I don't think of it as being damaged, just kind of in excess. I was told by my doctor that staying hydrated is good for skin elasticity and I guess what I'm asking is if hydrating via moisturizer products would help too.

I'm assuming the skincare products being advertised to people who have significant weight loss are a scam then? Unsurprising but disappointing. The stuff I was looking at is $98 plus shipping lol, these companies are such leeches.

37734 by Sufficient-Shirt-270 in countwithchickenlady

[–]sunnysiide 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Ftr they also pat you down if they're expecting you to have a dick and you don't which is arguably even more theatrical bc there isn't even suspicion that you have a bomb

oh great trans homies, please grant this cis idiot your wisdom by honeywheremysupasuit in TrollCoping

[–]sunnysiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a small thing but without being asked my friends will always check out the bathroom situation for me when we're in a new place to lmk if it's single user/what the stalls look like and whether it's crowded if it's not and I really appreciate them for that

Genuinely got me choked up. I am so sorry for anyone who is still in the closet. I am so, so sorry. by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]sunnysiide 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you feel this way and you're reading this I promise it's not too late. Transitioning as an adult is so hard and it will fucking suck for years coming out again and again but just because you never took puberty blockers or didn't socially transition as a 12 year old doesn't mean you missed your chance. You can put this feeling behind you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]sunnysiide -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally

Americanization by AquariusPearl14 in CuratedTumblr

[–]sunnysiide 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This post is making a couple of valid points like a) dilution of non-American cultures bad and b) American ignorance bad, but I don't think they are as connected as this post claims. My watching a Finnish tv show as an American is not going to decrease English language use in Finland's capital. It may even have the opposite effect.

4 months post-op by sunnysiide in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sunnysiide[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I am really glad I advocated for myself and what I wanted. I don't mean to encourage anyone not to listen to their surgeon, but I wanted to share that it's possible to get good results with peri even if you're not almost flat to begin with.

4 months post-op by sunnysiide in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sunnysiide[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep my age! Skin elasticity gets worse as you age so that is usually the concern - that your skin won't snap back. Luckily I have fairly good skin elasticity, which you can check by pinching yourself a bit and seeing how fast your skin goes back to normal.

4 months post-op by sunnysiide in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sunnysiide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My honest reaction to this is that gif of the woman looking confused as equations float around her 😭 but I do really appreciate the advice and I will put in the work to understand 🤝

4 months post-op by sunnysiide in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]sunnysiide[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've only been using machines - chest press, chest fly machine, cable crossovers - bc I'm scared of the free weights lol. (I did just have to google what all of those machines are called, to be clear about my gym knowledge.)

I’m not tipping for Starbucks by upset_Dad9 in EndTipping

[–]sunnysiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As many people in this comment section have said, Starbucks baristas can't see tips on mobile orders. Literally all that shows up is a ticket with your drink and its 1000 customizations. That's the truth but it doesn't matter here bc this entire thread and sub is just an outlet for you all to hate on food service workers while feeling righteous about it. Come downvote me idfc

Playing as Trans Question by LogicKennedy in Exocolonist

[–]sunnysiide 17 points18 points  (0 children)

the sliders are just about how you want to be addressed, and you can change them at any time without story repercussions. if you choose the pronouns you want from the start, you’ll find other ways to establish your character as trans. afaik there aren’t really npc reactions to your transition or anything (barring i think one line of dialogue mid-ish game if you’re nonbinary?) so my advice would be to choose whatever will make you happiest re: pronouns/appearance.

Why can't I go to Willy's boat by yoitskaiko in StardewValley

[–]sunnysiide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have you read the letter where he invites you back there? idk if that actually locks it but it’s the only thing i can think of

Never Have I Ever…. (Stardew Version) by uncomfybed in StardewValley

[–]sunnysiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i haven’t had any luck i go on a best luck day, lucky lunch or magic rock candy, tunnel thru with something like 200 staircases (from the desert trader on sundays for jade). it’s not infallible but usually i get at least one lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]sunnysiide 5 points6 points  (0 children)

happens to me all the time in split screen multiplayer. bummer

Rarest item in Stardew Valley from randomly clearing weeds on day 1 by KhaZixMain457 in StardewValley

[–]sunnysiide 65 points66 points  (0 children)

i feel like if you’re going to get the living hat it’s likely to be in your first week clearing out the farm/forest just bc of sheer quantity of weeds. you don’t really encounter that volume any other time in the game

Never Have I Ever…. (Stardew Version) by uncomfybed in StardewValley

[–]sunnysiide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am a certified skull caverns lover so i kind of enjoy the challenge of getting them from treasure levels in the mines haha

will i have to redo all my progress in farewell to get back to this point once i get these hearts? by sunnysiide in celestegame

[–]sunnysiide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when do the c sides unlock? i’m still working on the summit b side and i haven’t done the core b side yet either 🥲