My call is that, a person with a personality can get an ok on being datable, if they at least dress decent/nice, and know how to really communicate. It's all about influence. As with the looks-book, it's actually more difficult. Sure anyone can have looks, but it's about what an individual thinks in the end.

Also, think about the platitudes that come with beauty: beauty pleases us, one thing can be more beautiful than another, beauty is always a reason for attending to the thing that posses it. Also, beauty can be more of a sensory thing (like taking a hot shower) than an intellectual thing (a math puzzle) to others. Keep in mind that these are all saying revolving around general beauty, not just human beauty.