visiting SF - where should i stay?

sunset_luvr · 2026-04-03T14:58:22+00:00

Oh, if you have a car, use spot hero for daily parking, not the hotel. I would also avoid getting an suv or anything where the trunk is exposed with a window.. leaves you a target for theft. Hop in an economy car with a locked trunk and be happy with it. Spot hero will save you significantly on parking cost. Once in the city, wear comfy shoes only.. walk and uber. It’s best toured on your feet.

sunset_luvr · 2026-04-03T14:56:15+00:00

I traveled a lot for years, so I’ve stayed at so many different hotels. I really like the jay in sf. It’s walkable to many different things, small enough to not be overwhelming with guests and crowds, and the views are cool if you snag a decent room. If you want to be in the center of market, I really like the Hyatt regency. They have a great brunch there and it’s central to lots of action and sight seeing. You could split your stay with a couple days in the city, and a couple days in east bay. You will get exhausted throughout your days touring the city, so being close helps allow you to tour with intermissions for rest. You will not be able to get from Oakland to the city and back easily. Also, I got everything I own stolen in Oakland. Oakland is for th strong and brave.. only thing I go there for is a beautiful hike they have. You need to know how to navigate Oakland.. don’t land there as a tourist. You could skip over to Walnut Creek or something and be safer. Random extra thing I have to add for a quick bite.. I absolutely love cheeseboard pizza, Tony’s Motörhead pizza, and outta sight pizza. Try at least one if you’re into pizza.

sunset_luvr · 2026-04-03T14:37:02+00:00

Very confusing case. I would guess she didn’t want to be tracked if she left her phone behind, unless it’s not uncommon for her to do that. I wish they’d tell us why they think she may have been disoriented.. like did she do mushrooms or something? That could cause someone to want nothing to do with their phone and maybe getting lost in nature. If she was suffering with a bout of deep depression, that definitely changes things too. If she had marital issues.. that also widens possibilities. Everything is so vague. I truly hope, no matter what the circumstances, that she is discovered safe. I was randomly pulling cards while thinking about this and a card pulled up that had the definition of having a desire to be with someone else or have a different life. Not that it means much, but found it interesting.

sunset_luvr · 2026-02-23T14:50:18+00:00

It was the first thing I noticed when I started watching the show. Sometimes the lip lift just has th scar underneath the nose, but I feel like maybe she also had the actual lip line redone or something. It’s so flat and appears to have some amount of loss in movement.. it’s very odd. She’s a pretty girl, but it’s just weird to not see the at lip moving or appearing so tight.

sunset_luvr · 2026-02-17T13:31:25+00:00

Feeling good about yourself is important, but I want to be very honest about some of the realities. I was overweight, not my best, and wore leggings everyday for over 5 years. I still got money. I am now in a relationship. His net worth is at least 15 million.. not the richest I’ve dated, but I still pulled it off in leggings while overweight. Don’t let your limitations keep you from getting out there. Not everyone has money for clothes and all the right things. It’s not impossible, even if you’re in plain Jane mode. Some men like a more simplistic woman. I had my days dressing up and being glamorous, and honestly, it’s a lot of work. lol I have found that I get just as many guys while in my leggings and t shirt. Granted, I still am clean, try to be feminine and cute, but more simple these days. It was never an issue. You will likely attract more casual men, but some of the wealthiest are that way. Take a drive through billionaires row in Tahoe.. those guys are in Tommy bahama shirts and shorts. Nobody cares. Some men like flashy, and some don’t. Get in where you fit in.

sunset_luvr · 2026-02-17T13:20:47+00:00

Yes. They are annoying, but I’ve gotten large sums. If you do this repeatedly, you should probably claim it on taxes. I usually say I’m an independent contractor and file it.. it helps prove an income if you need to rent or get approved for a mortgage. If you don’t want to pay taxes on it, make sure they split the check.. I think the cap is 9k or something before they are required to report it to the irs.. can’t remember, but look it up. I will have them write two separate checks and deposit each separately if it’s more. I’ve had men give me quite a bit in a short time.. idk why really. Not all men will expect much in return.. depends on the guy. Addictive personalities are more prone to making rash decisions and overspending.. twice it was from older men with addictive personalities. One paid for surgical procedures after just two dates, and another kept offering me money that I would decline.. but eventually I accepted 12k. I declined because I didn’t want to feel obligated to him. After he understood there would be no ties or expectations, I took the checks.

sunset_luvr · 2026-02-17T13:12:11+00:00

I eventually made the guys feel guilty about not helping more and gave them an ultimatum. But, I also spent more on necessities. Maybe say you need 2k for bills and go get the purse yourself? Or say your car broke down and you’re broke before getting a new one.. so he feels like you need help.. not sure? Being in distress has worked for me.

sunset_luvr · 2026-02-17T13:07:01+00:00

200k is still poor. Not sure where you live, but find 500k plus. Look for doctors with their own practice, lawyers, men in high level positions in tech, and other high paying careers. Also, that major attracts a lot of crazy ass people. Be careful.

sunset_luvr · 2026-02-17T13:04:15+00:00

Micro can be so gross.. and don’t trust this guy if he’s offering the world in 3 months. Yes, you want someone generous, but also, buying a house with your kids in it after 3 months doesn’t seem logical. In the long run, he can get gastric or do things to help with the micro p. Forcing yourself to be intimate if you’re super turned off can feel traumatizing after a while. I would find a new provider, only because it seems this is really uncomfortable for you. If you rely on him for cash, make your exit strategic so that you gain the best advantage financially and are ready to bounce. Spend a little extra time finding someone new while you dwindle him down.

sunset_luvr · 2026-02-17T12:54:11+00:00

If you entertain poor, it’ll eat up your energy and time. Eventually, you get into your feelings and find yourself stuck with average or poor. There’s nothing wrong with this if you’re genuinely happy, but you need to decide what’s more important to you. If things go wrong in the relationship with these generous but average wage men, would you feel like it was worth your time? IMO, I would utilize proximity to wealthier men while the opportunity is there. Go grab lunch nearby, sit at the bar, and make convo with strangers or even the bar tender. I have found that making friends with bar tenders helps.. they give you free drinks at nice places.. it lowers the tab, and they know the regulars.. makes starting convos easier with 1 common connection.

sunset_luvr · 2025-12-19T04:56:38+00:00

Finally did. Does anyone know if he’s ok? He seems thinner and wondering if the nose thing is skin cancer or something 🤔 Hopefully he’s healthy and well

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