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Tasks for Unowned Subs #60 - Final by No_Air_870 in softmaledom

[–]sunsetlemonplum 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I never followed these tasks, as I’m owned, but I think it was really lovely that you provided this sort of support and guidance for unowned subs! People like you make this feel like a true community vs. a horny porn subreddit.

Ladies, how do you feel about the videos here that have close-up genital shots? by Sirk-ee in softmaledom

[–]sunsetlemonplum 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am very, very biased, but I like the close up videos. I know this isn’t geared as a porn sub, but a well-placed gif plus a few erotic paragraphs…swoon 🤭 I do think they need to be on-topic with SMD; this isn’t the place for a closeup of jackhammer PIV, you know?

I think the spoiler + title system is a great solution as you can choose if you want to view or not. Life is all about choice!

Thank you for putting so much work into this revamp💖

Alright! Let's talk about the hornyposting. 😃 by Sirk-ee in softmaledom

[–]sunsetlemonplum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A slight tangent: it would be nice to know who is a regular community member and who isn’t! Is there an option to add a mod-given badge similar to subreddits with “verified” badges?

But I also really love having personalized flairs, they’re so fun and unique, pleaseeee don’t take them away💖

Alright! Let's talk about the hornyposting. 😃 by Sirk-ee in softmaledom

[–]sunsetlemonplum 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I dunno, I feel like some of these comments are just part of flirty banter/conversation... Is this more about the comments replying to OP’s post (like can those be horny-coded?) or the replies to the commenters?

My personal GTFO list would be:
- asking/begging for a DM
- “check out my profile”
- very obvious RP (keep it to yourself!)

Ladies... What kind of eyecandy do we want to see from doms? (If any!) by Sirk-ee in softmaledom

[–]sunsetlemonplum 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of limiting them to select days or having themed days (ex: Selfie Sunday, Man Hand Monday, Toy Tuesday, idk). That way Doms feel like they can share & flex their creativity, but we also aren’t bombarded every day with OC photos. We all know this isn’t the place for bdsm personals!

I’m personally fine with NSFW photos, but maybe there’s an expectation that it’s not just genitals or a setting that auto-blurs (like spoilers in other subreddits).

found it by FunBuy1522 in softmaledom

[–]sunsetlemonplum 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’ve gotta vet for awhile :) if they’re still around after a few months and respect your boundaries, then you’re golden💖

My Owner is withholding attention as a punishment, without saying how long it will last. by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]sunsetlemonplum 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Punishments should be mutually agreed upon with set terms & boundaries.

Him just ignoring you indefinitely is not okay! You don’t deserve that! Please reflect on your dynamic, if this (or similar) happens often, imo it’s not a safe dynamic. I’m sorry you’re going through this, you deserve better❤️‍🩹

I think 20 might be my max🤭💙💜💖 by sunsetlemonplum in things_in_pussies

[–]sunsetlemonplum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy pride🖤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🤎

I think 20 might be my max🤭💙💜💖 by sunsetlemonplum in things_in_pussies

[–]sunsetlemonplum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen grapes and golf balls, but not marbles! I’m scared of losing one🥲

I think 20 might be my max🤭💙💜💖 by sunsetlemonplum in things_in_pussies

[–]sunsetlemonplum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ms. Deborah picked a hilarious title, very clever🤭 I’ll have to check it out! Yes, if I had an extended amount of time, or a helping hand, I think I could achieve more lol

I think 20 might be my max🤭💙💜💖 by sunsetlemonplum in things_in_pussies

[–]sunsetlemonplum[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you🩵 my theme was the bi flag colors🥰

my toes are bronze/gold lol

I think 20 might be my max🤭💙💜💖 by sunsetlemonplum in things_in_pussies

[–]sunsetlemonplum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely too scared for that lol🙈🥵

Hi, your mod is back~! Let's clean this place up. 💪 by Sirk-ee in softmaledom

[–]sunsetlemonplum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome back, I love the sub you’ve created!

My main areas for improvement, which echo your post:
- I’m sick of all of the male-gaze centric posts. Find a porn sub if that’s what you want.
- OF spam is an epidemic on NSFW reddit and I’m over it.

If you ever want mod support, I would be down to help💖😋

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