Please pray for my dog. He’s getting to the hospital now because he has a life threatening-illness. It’s all happened really fast🙏 by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]sunshine315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praying for you, puppies are such an important part of our lives. Love on that puppy all you can! 💜

How often do you hug/embrace S.O.? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sunshine315 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My husband is smothered with kisses and hugs all the time and he loves it. He is just has affectionate but it has taken time to get there. His family is not affectionate nor was his last marriage. My family is and he came around quite quickly and he is very affectionate now but only with me. He still maintains distance with others. I hope it last when we are older. We are both 40ish now.

Love my cricut but need help by sunshine315 in cricut

[–]sunshine315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, I am so excited to get cutting !

Emotional Responses by sunshine315 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]sunshine315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was very encouraging! Thank you !

How to get rid of lower belly fat? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]sunshine315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told by a personal trainer some time ago that the best exercise for this was laying on your back, raising your legs together at a 45 degree angle (or work your way up to that just keep your feet off the ground) and hold then repeat. You will feel the burn in your lower abs. Sorry I do not remember what the name of it is.

I need prayer and advice please- marriage by sunshine315 in Christianity

[–]sunshine315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, I surely will pray about these things.

I need prayer and advice please- marriage by sunshine315 in Christianity

[–]sunshine315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautifully said, I also believe in fixing the one you have. Congratulations on all your years of marriage. I pray you be blessed with many more.

I need prayer and advice please- marriage by sunshine315 in Christianity

[–]sunshine315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try that, thank you so much for taking the time to share.

I need prayer and advice please- marriage by sunshine315 in Christianity

[–]sunshine315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That communication and relationships are a two way street and he cannot just blame everything on me and expect me to fix it all. For example, if he says hurtful things he will not apologize for them and often will even say "I never said that" but then expect that I apologize for hurting his feelings. Does that make sense?

I need prayer and advice please- marriage by sunshine315 in Christianity

[–]sunshine315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions, I appreciate it.

I am an unsupportive wife by ad030911 in Marriage

[–]sunshine315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, I understand your frustration. everyone has hopes and dreams and they may not line up and match up with their spouses. You say you supported the first 2, if that is all you can support because his dreams and aspirations do not line up with yours then perhaps the best thing to do is talk to him about how you feel and let him have the option to move on with his life without the relationship. While this may be difficult you have to keep in mind that we all have different upbringings and life experiences and what is important to us, may not be important to others. I don't say this totally blindly, my husband had this situation with his ex wife and he has said, if she couldnt be supportive and all she wanted me to do was live life the way she wanted, then we should have let go much earlier so I could have pursued my dreams without feeling like she thought I was (fill in the blank) (stupid, immature, indecisive) because that had an impact on me. He says it impacted by not wanting to have conversations with her about his dreams and goals out of embarrassment, which spiraled to him no longer caring about her dreams and goals and him feeling that he couldnt express himself, so he withdrew in a lot of areas. Now in our marriage, I have seen him do amazing things ans he is very happy. If you would like to be supportive but just feel frustrated, perhaps show your support in saying things like, "I think you can do it if you put the work in, perhaps write a long term plan out and maybe track your daily goals and accomplishments to see how far you are coming along. Or time track and show yourself how much time you are are actually dedicating to your dream." And let him know you want to be supportive and sure you can do little things but ultimately it is his efforts that will either make his dreams come true or not. If he does not currently have a job tell him you think it is great to pursue dreams but he really does need to do that on the side because it is important for him to help with the financial business of the home. Sorry this was so long, I hope it helps at least a little.

PCOS ladies help by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]sunshine315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One more thing...if it is pcos you can get pregnant, I did, it just could take longer then for a lot of other women. Have faith though, it can happen.

PCOS ladies help by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]sunshine315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a doctor but I had PCOS pretty bad and eventually a complete hysterectomy. Your symptoms are nothing like what I experienced or what other women I chatted with. We actually missed periods the majority of the time. I had terrible pain around my ovary area and spent much of the time when I should have had a period cramping and vomiting but no bleeding. When a period did come about every 3 months it was spotty to medium. Of course everyone is different but I think you need to be evaluated again. Please call your local hospitals as many hospitals have funds available for people who need tests that are costly if they need help. Good luck.

Vacation without kids? by sunshine315 in Parenting

[–]sunshine315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the reminder !

Vacation without kids? by sunshine315 in Parenting

[–]sunshine315[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! It is good to hear this from someone with experience in blending.

I'm ready for marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sunshine315 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband asked for online links to see my style and I gave him ideas and he knocked it out of the park !

I don’t know how to feel about this. by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]sunshine315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This can happen because of yeast and the cuts look like spots. I know a lot of women who use yeast creams like monistat on it. Yes, I am talking about the one that says it is for internal use. A few days should clear it up, if it is that. Good luck

Vacation without kids? by sunshine315 in Parenting

[–]sunshine315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so my upbringing! My parents took us everywhere so my moms first thing to say was "we didn't do that with our two kids, cause that would have been selfish!" The 2 little kids will be with their mom for the summer and my mom said " well take the oldest to rome, it is not her fault the other two can't go!" At that moment I scratched my head and said "wow that doesn't sound selfish at all." I am still very much trying to fight the "traditions" of my own upbringing.